12 I-Etiquette yama-Indian Donti

Oko Akufanele Uyenze eNdiya

Ngethamsanqa, amaNdiya axolela kakhulu abantu bezinye iintlanga abangahlali beyazi isiqhelo se-Indian culture. Nangona kunjalo, ukukunceda uphephe iimpazamo ezihlazo, nantsi ezinye izinto ezingenakuzenza eNdiya.

1. Musa ukugqoka okanye ukutyhila iimpahla

AmaNdiya athola indlela yokugqoka, ngokukodwa kwimimandla yasemaphandleni. Imigangatho yokugqoka yaseNtshona, kubandakanywa iingubo kubasetyhini, ngoku ixhaphake kwizixeko ezinkulu.

Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uhlonipheke, kufuneka ugcine imilenze yakho igubungelekile. Ngeke ubonane nendoda egqoke kakuhle e-Indian egqoke imfutshane, okanye umfazi waseNdiya egqoke ingubo phezu kweenyawo (nangona iifama zeGoa kunye nabafundi beekholeji zizinto eziqhelekileyo!). Ngokuqinisekileyo, unokwenza, kwaye akunokwenzeka ukuba akukho mntu uza kuthetha nantoni na. Kodwa ukubala kokuqala kuqala! Kukhona imbono eqhelekileyo e-Indiya ukuba amabhinqa angaphandle angamaqhinga , kwaye ukugqoka iimpahla ezingalunganga kuqhubela phambili oku. Uya kufumana intlonelo ngakumbi ngokugqoka ngokufanelekileyo. Ukugubungela imilenze kunye namahlombe (kunye nentloko yakho) ibaluleke ngakumbi xa u tyelela iitempile eIndiya. Kwakhona, gwema ukugqoka iipopu ezingenanto. Ukuba unxiba intambo yepaghetti phezulu, gqoka i-shawl okanye inqabunga phezu kwayo ukuze uthobe.

2. Ungagqoki ii-Shoes zakho ngaphakathi

Imilinganiselo enhle yokukhupha izicathulo zakho ngaphambi kokuba ungene ekhaya lomntu, kwaye kuyimfuneko ngaphambi kokungena ethempelini okanye kumasikiti.

AmaNdiya aya kuhlala enxiba izicathulo ngaphakathi kwamakhaya abo, afana nokuya kwindawo yokuhlambela. Nangona kunjalo, ezi zihlangu zigcinwa ukusetyenziswa kwekhaya kwaye azize zigqwebe ngaphandle. Ngamaxesha amaxesha ii-Shoes ziyakususwa ngaphambi kokungena kwivenkile. Ukuba ubona izicathulo emnyango, yinto efanelekileyo yokuthabatha eyakho.

3. Musa ukuphawula iinyawo zakho okanye iminwe kubantu

Iinyawo zibhekwa zingcolileyo kwaye ngoko kubalulekile ukuphepha ukukhomba iinyawo zakho kubantu, okanye ukuthintela abantu okanye izinto (ngakumbi iincwadi) ngeenyawo zakho okanye izicathulo.

Ukuba wenza ngengozi, kufuneka uxolise ngokukhawuleza. Kwakhona, phawula ukuba amaNdiya aya kufutshane neentloko okanye amehlo njengento yokubonisa uxolo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, luphawu lohlonipheko ukugoba kwaye uthinte iinyawo zomntu endala eNdiya.

Ukutshintsha ngomunwe wakho kukhanyeka eNdiya. Ukuba ufuna ukuphawula kwinto okanye umntu, kungcono ukwenza njalo ngesandla sakho sonke okanye ngesithupha.

4. Ungadli ukutya okanye izinto zokupasa ngesandla sakho sasekhohlo

Isandla sasekhohlo sithathwa njengesinqambi e-Indiya, njengoko isetyenziselwa ukwenza imicimbi ehambelana nokuya kwindawo yokuhlambela. Ngoko ke, kufuneka ugwebe isandla sakho sokunxele sidibene nokutya okanye nayiphi na into oya kuyo kubantu.

5. Musa ukukhutshwa yimibandela engabonakaliyo

AmaNdiya ngokwenene abantu abanomdla kunye nenkcubeko yabo yindawo apho abantu benza nto ngaphandle kwengqondo yabo ishishini, ngokuqhelekileyo ngenxa yokungabi nabucala e-Indiya kunye nomkhuba wokubeka abantu kwindawo yokuhlalisana. Ngenxa yoko, ungamangaliswa okanye uphukiswe xa umntu ekubuza ukuba ungakanani imali ohlala kuyo kunye neminye imibuzo ebalulekileyo, yonke into yokuqala. Ingakumbi, kufuneka uzive ukhululekile ukubuza le mibuzo ngokubuyisela.

Esikhundleni sokubangela ukukhubeka, abantu othetha nabo baya kuvuyela ukuba uthathe umdla kubo! Ngubani owaziyo ulwazi olumnandi oya kufunda nalo. (Ukuba ungaziva uthanda ukuxelela inyaniso kwimibandela, iyamkeleka ngokufanelekileyo ukunika impendulo engacacanga okanye ukuthetha amanga).

6. Musa ukuhlala uhloniphekile

Ukusetyenziswa "nceda" kwaye "mbulela" kubalulekile kwimilinganiselo enhle entshonalanga. Nangona kunjalo, e-Indiya, bangenza isimo esingadingekile kwaye, ngokumangalisa, banokuhlambalaza! Nangona kulungile ukubulela umntu onikezele inkonzo kuwe, njengomncedisi wevenkile okanye umncedisi, ukugubungula ukubonga ngabahlobo okanye intsapho kufuneka kugwenywe. E-Indiya, abantu bajonga ukwenza izinto kulabo abasondelene nabo ngokupheleleyo. Ukuba uyababonga, banokukubona njengokuphulwa kobudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye nokudala umgama ongafaneleki.

Esikhundleni sokubonga, kukuhle ukubonisa ukubonga kwakho ngezinye iindlela. Umzekelo, ukuba umenywa kwindlu yomntu ukuba udle, ungathi, "Ndiyabulela kakhulu ukuba undiphelele kwaye undipheke". Endaweni yoko, uthi, "Ndiyithande kakhulu ukutya kunye nokuchitha ixesha kunye nawe." Uya kuphawula ukuba "nceda" isetyenziswe rhoqo eNdiya, ngakumbi phakathi kwabahlobo kunye nosapho. E-Hindi, kukho amanqanaba omgangatho wesithathu - obusondeleyo, oqhelekileyo nohloniphekileyo - kuxhomekeke kwifom esithatha isenzi. Kukho igama elithi "nceda" ngesiHindi ( kripya ) kodwa ayisoloko isetyenzisiweyo kwaye lithetha ukuba wenze ukuthanda, kwakhona ukudala izinga eligqithiseleyo lohlobo.

Enye into ekumele uyigcine ingqalelo kukuba ukuhlonipha kungabonwa njengomqondiso wobuthathaka eNdiya, ngakumbi ukuba umntu uzama ukuhlambalaza okanye ukuxhaphaza. Othobekileyo, "Hayi, mbulela", akunakunqwenela ukukhupha abathinteli bezitalato. Endaweni yoko, kuyimfuneko ukuba ibe nzima kwaye inamandla.

7. Musa ukubeka ngokuthe ngqo umemo okanye isicelo

Nangona kubalulekile ukuba uqiniseke kwaye uthi "cha" kwezinye iimeko zaseIndiya, ukwenza njalo ukuhlaselwa kwesimemo okanye isicelo singacingelwa ngokungamhloneli. Oku kuba kubalulekile ukukhusela ukwenza umntu abukeke okanye azive ehle. Oku kwahluke kwimbono yasentshonalanga, apho ukuthi ayikho nje ukuhamba phambili kwaye unganikeli ukulindela okungekho ukuzinikela. Esikhundleni sokuthi "hayi" okanye "andinakukwazi" ngokuthe ngqo, ndiyamkela indlela yaseNdiya yokuphendula ngokunika izimpendulo ezivakalayo njengokuthi "Ndiza kuzama", okanye "mhlawumbi", okanye "kungenzeka ukuba", okanye " Ndiza kubona oko ndiyakwenzayo ".

8. Musa ukulindele abantu ukuba bafike ixesha

Kukho ixesha, kwaye kukho "ixesha eliqhelekileyo laseNdiya" okanye "ixesha elidityanisiweyo laseNdiya". Ngasentshonalanga, kuthathwa njengento engcolileyo ukukhawuleza, kwaye nayiphi na imizuzu engaphezu kwe-10 idinga umnxeba. E-Indiya, umxholo wexesha uguquguquka. Abantu abanakwenzeka ukuba baphenduke xa bethetha baya. Imizuzu eyi-10 ithetha ukuba isigqibo seyure, isiqingatha seyure singathetha iyure, kwaye iyure ingathetha ngonaphakade!

9. Musa ukulindele abantu ukuba bahloniphe indawo yakho

Ukugqithisa kunye nokungabikho kwemithombo kubangela ukuba uninzi kwaye uphonseke eNdiya! Ukuba kukho umgca, ngokuqinisekileyo abantu baya kuzama baze bagxume. Ukuthintela oku kungenzeki, abo basemgceni baya kuthi bahlale besondele kakhulu komnye nomnye ukuba bachukumisa. Unokuziva ungenakukhathazeka ekuqaleni, kodwa kubalulekile ukukhusela abantu ukuba bangene.

10. Ungabonisi uthando kuLuntu

Kukho uhleko olulungile ukuba "luqhube esidlangalaleni kodwa lungangazanga kuluntu" eNdiya. Ngelishwa, kukho inyaniso kuyo! Nangona ungeke ucinge ngento yokubamba isandla sakho somlingani kuluntu, okanye ukumbamba okanye ukuwanga, akufanelekanga eNdiya. Uluntu lwaseNdiya luyalondoloza, ngokukodwa isizukulwana esidala. Izenzo ezinjalo zixhatshazwa ngesondo kwaye zingathathwa njengento enyanyekayo kuluntu. "Ukusebenza kwamapolisa" kwenzeka. Nangona kungenakwenzeka ukuba, njengowesinye isizwe, uya kubanjwa kukulungele ukugcina izinto ezithandekayo ezizimeleyo.

11. Musa ukuwajongela ulwimi lwakho lweelwimi

Ngokwesiko, abafazi abathinti amadoda aseIndiya xa bedibana kunye nokubulisa. Isandla sokubamba isandla, sisenzo esisezantsi sentshona, sinokuchazwa ngokuthe ngqo njengento esondeleyo eNdiya xa ivela kumfazi. Kuyafana nokuthintela indoda, nokuba nje ngokufutshane ngengalo, ngelixa uthetha naye. Nangona amaninzi abashishini be-Indian asetyenziswa ukuzula izandla nabasetyhini kule mihla, ukunika "i-Namaste" kunye neentente zombini ngokuqhelekileyo yindlela engcono.

12. Musa ukugweba ilizwe lonke

Ekugqibeleni, kubalulekile ukugcina engqondweni ukuba iNdiya yilizwe elifani kakhulu, kunye nelizwe eliphambene kakhulu. Umbuso ngamnye uhlukile kwaye unenkcubeko, kunye neenkcubeko zenkcubeko. Into enokuba yinyani kwindawo ethile e-Indiya, akunakwenzeka nakwezinye indawo. Kukho zonke iintlobo zabantu abahlukeneyo nezindlela zokuziphatha eNdiya. Ngenxa yoko, kufuneka uqaphele ukuba ungapheli izigqibo malunga neli lizwe lonke ngokusekelwe kumava amancinane.