Ngelishwa, iNdiya ithola ubungqina obuninzi malunga nokudlwengulwa, ukuxhatshazwa kunye nokuphathwa kakubi kwabasetyhini. Oku kushiya abaninzi abantu bezinye iintlanga bazibuza ukuba iIndiya yindawo ekhuselekileyo yokuba iindwendwe zivakatye. Abanye bayesaba kangangokuba bayanqikaza okanye bafuni ukuya eIndiya.
Ngoko, yintoni imeko enjalo?
Ukuqonda Inkinga kunye neNkcazo yayo
Akunakuphika ukuba iIndiya yindoda elawulwa yindoda apho uzaliseko lusekelwe khona.
Ulwaphulo oluhlukileyo lwabesilisa nabesifazane luqala ukususela kumncinane, xa abantwana bekhula. Akukuphela nje kokuziphatha, kodwa kufikelela ngolwimi kunye nendlela abantu bacinga ngayo. Amantombazana athatyathwa njengelomthwalo okanye umthwalo wokutshata. Baxelelwa ukuba babathobekile baze bazithobe, kwaye bagqoke ngokukhawuleza. Amakhwenkwe, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngokuqhelekileyo avunyelwe ukuba baziphathe kodwa bafuna. Nawuphi na uhlobo lobundlobongela okanye ukungahloneli kwabasetyhini ludluliselwa njengokuba "amakhwenkwe engamadoda", kwaye engazange abuze okanye aqeqeshwe.
Abafana bafunda kwindlela abazali babo badibanisa ngayo, kuquka umama wabo othobela uyise. Oku kubanika ingqondo ephosakeleyo yobuninzi. Ukusebenzisana phakathi kwamadoda kunye nabesifazane abangaphandle kwemitshato kuya kugqitywa eNdiya, ekhokelela ekunyanzelweni ngokwesondo. Kukho konke, oku kudala imeko apho amalungelo abesetyhini ayithathwa njengento enkulu.
Ibhinqa eladliwano-ndlebe nabadlwenguli abangama-100 e-Indiya yabona ukuba abadlwenguli ngabantu abaqhelekileyo abangaqondi ukuba yiyiphi imvume.
Abaninzi abakwaziyo ukuba oko bayenzile ukudlwengulwa.
I-India iqhubekela phambili, ngakumbi kwiidolophu ezinkulu. Ingqondo yomthandabulelo inzima ngumbolo ekhulayo yabasetyhini abasebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya baze babe ngabazimeleyo ngokwezimali. La mabhinqa azenza iinqunto zawo, kunokuvumela abantu ukuba bawisele.
Nangona kunjalo, oku kugalelo kumadoda abenza kakubi, ukuba bazive besengozini kwaye bazame ukuphinda bafumane amandla abo.
Ingxaki yabasetyhini bezinye iintlanga eIndiya
I-India's patriarchal community ineempembelelo malunga nendlela abahamba ngayo abahambahambayo abahambahambayo kunye nokuphathwa eNdiya ngabantu. Ngokwesiko, amabhinqa aseNdiya ahambanga ngokwabo ngaphandle kokuba ahambe kunye nendoda. Khangela nje ezitratweni zaseIndiya. Ukungabikho kwabasetyhini kuyabonakala. Izikhala zomphakathi zizaliswa ngamadoda, ngelixa abafazi bexhomekeke kwikhaya nasekhitshini. Kwiindawo ezininzi eIndiya, abafazi abayi kuphuma ngaphandle emva kobumnyama.
Amafilimu aseHollywood nakwezinye iinkqubo ze-TV ezisentshona, ezibonisa abamhlophe abamhlophe ngokulala ngesondo, ziye zakhokelela amadoda amaninzi aseIndiya ngokukholelwa ukuba abafazi abanjalo "bakhululekile" kwaye "kulula".
Hlanganisa ezi zinto zibini kunye, kwaye xa le ndoda yaseNdiya ibona umfazi wesinye isizwe ehamba yedwa e-India, kufana nesimemo esivulelekileyo sokuqhubela phambili okungafunekiyo. Oku kuphakanyiswe ukuba loo ntokazi ibhinxiweyo okanye iveza iimpahla ezithathwa njengezingcolileyo eNdiya.
Ngamhla, enye yeendlela ezixhaphakileyo zentuthuko engafunekiyo kukuxhatshazwa kwi-selfie. Kungabonakala ngathi yinto engenakulimala. Nangona kunjalo, into eyenziwa ngabafana kunye ne-selfie yinto enye.
Abaninzi baya kubathumela kumajelo asekuhlaleni, besithi babe nobuhlobo kunye nabo besondelene nabafazi.
Ayinakukhuseleka kodwa ayikhuseli
Njengowesifazane wesinye isizwe, ukuziva ungakhululekile eIndiya kukhwankqisekile. Uya kukhangela ngamadoda, kwaye baninzi bahlanjululwa kwaye bahlukunyezwa ngokwesini (kuthiwa "ukudibanisa") ngezinye izihlandlo. Ngokuqhelekileyo iphelela apho kodwa. Ubungqina bendwendwekazi obudlwengulwayo eIndiya ngokuqinisekileyo akukho phezulu kunezinye indawo kwihlabathi. Kwaye, eqinisweni, iIndiya ikhuselekileyo kwabasetyhini basemzini kunabesifazane baseNdiya. Ngoba?
I-India yindawo ehluke kakhulu. Ngokungafani noko kunokubonakaliswa kumaphephandaba, ubundlobongela obubhekiswe kwabasetyhini abukwenzeka kuyo yonke indawo. Kuxhaphake kakhulu kwezinye iindawo kunabanye. Uninzi lweziganeko zenzeka phakathi kwama-castes aphantsi kunye nakwiimeko zasekhaya, ikakhulukazi "kwimva" kwimimandla yasemaphandleni okanye kwiindawo ezixinzelelekileyo zedolophini abangahambiyo.
Nangona kunjalo, thetha kwabasetyhini basemzini abahamba ngeenxa zonke eIndiya, kwaye banokuthi baxelele amava ahlukeneyo. Kwabanye, ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kwakuqhelekile. Kwabanye, kwakungaphantsi. Nangona kunjalo, kukhululeka kakhulu. Kwaye, kufuneka ulungele indlela oza kuyenza ngayo.
Ungayifumana Njani?
Ngelishwa, amaninzi angamazwe angaphandle awazi ukuba asabele njani. Xa befumana ezi ziimeko ezingaxakekiyo, baziva benamahloni kwaye abafuni ukudala indawo. Le nxalenye yeso sizathu sokuba abo bantu baseNdiya bazive benokuzithemba ukuba baziphathe ngendlela engafanelekanga kwindawo yokuqala - kungabikho bani udibana nabo!
Ukungayithobeli imeko okanye ukuzama ukusinda kuyo akusoloko kwanele. Kunoko, kusebenze ngakumbi ukuba uqiniseke. Amadoda angasetyenziselwa abafazi abazimelela wona ngokuqhelekileyo bayothuka kwaye baya kukhawuleza bahambe. Ngaphezu koko, abasetyhini abanokuzithemba ngokunyanisekileyo kwaye bajonge ngathi banokuzinyamekela ngokwabo banamathuba amaninzi ekujoliswe kuzo. AmaNdiya ayesaba impembelelo evela kwamanye amazwe nakwamanye amazwe.
Akubona bonke ababi
Into ebalulekileyo ukugcina engqondweni kukuba akubona bonke abantu baseNdiya ababelana ngesimo esifanayo. Kukho amadoda amaninzi ahloniphekileyo ahlonipha abafazi kwaye akayi kunqikaza ukunikela uncedo xa kuyimfuneko. Unokumangaliswa ukuhlangabezana neemeko apho uphathwa kakubi kunokuba ulindele. Uninzi lwaseIndiya lufuna abantu bezinye izizwe ukuba banandipha kwaye bathande ilizwe labo, kwaye baya kuphuma kwindlela yabo yokubonelela ngoncedo. Ezinye zezinkumbulo zakho ezilungileyo kakhulu zaseIndiya ziya kubandakanya abahlali.
Ngoko, Ngaba ngabafazi bezinye iintlanga kufuneka bahambe ngeSolo eNdiya?
Ngamafutshane, kuphela ukuba unokukwazi ukuyisebenzisa. Kuyavunywa, i-India ayikho ilizwe apho uya kuziva ukhululekile kwaye ufuna ukulinda, nangona imbuyekezo ikhona apho. Lindela ukuphazamiseka ngamanye amaxesha, kwaye ungayazi into oyenzayo. Ngenxa yoko, ukuba uhambo lwakho lokuqala lwangaphandle, iNdiya ayiyona indawo efanelekileyo yokuqala. Ukuba unamava okuhamba kwaye unethemba lokuba, akukho sizathu sokuziva ungakhuselekanga ukuba unengqiqo. Musa ukuya kwindawo ezikude okanye uhlale ubusuku busuku. Ukujonga ulwimi lwakho kunye nendlela osebenzisana ngayo nabantu baseIndiya. Nokuba isenzo esincinci, njengomomotheka okanye ukuthintela ngengalo, inokutolika njengomdla. Yiba nesitalato ehlakaniphile kwaye uthembele izilwanyana zakho!
Ziziphi iindawo eziphambili kunye ezimbi kakhulu?
Gcina ukhumbule ukuba iindawo ozozityelela eIndiya nazo ziya kuba negalelo elikhulu kumava akho. Ngokubanzi, i-south (Tamil Nadu, Karnataka, Kerala, ne-Andhra Pradesh) ibonakala ikhululekile ngokuthelekiswa nomntla.
I-Tamil Nadu yenye yezona ndawo zibalaseleyo zokuhamba ngezilwanyana zase-Indiya , kunye neyokuqala ephakanyisiweyo. I-Mumbai yidolophini eyaziwayo ngokuzikhusela. Ezinye iindawo zaseIndiya ezinokungabikho kwenkonzo engabonakaliyo yiGujarat, iPunjab , i- Himachal Pradesh , i- Uttarakhand , iNyakatho yeIndiya kunye neLadakh.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuxhatshazwa kuninzi kakhulu kwiindawo ezithandwa ngabantu abavakatyelayo enyakatho yaseIndiya, kuquka neDelhi, i-Agra, kunye neengxenye zeRajasthan, iMadhya Pradesh kunye ne-Uttar Pradesh. I-Fatehpur Sikri , kufuphi ne-Agra, yaziwa ngokuba yenye yezona ndawo ezimbi kunazo zonke eIndiya ngenxa yokuxhatshazwa kwabangaphandle kwamanye amazwe, kunye namaNdiya (ngokuchukumisa kunye nezikhokelo, ngaphezu kwimiba yeendawo). Ngo-2017, kwagqitywa ngokuhlaselwa kabuhlungu kwababini abatyeleli beSwitzerland.
Ufanele Uhlale Kuphi?
Khetha ngokufanelekileyo indawo yokuhlala. Ama-Homestays anika inani leenzuzo, kubandakanywa ulwazi lwendawo kunye nemikhosi eya kukunakekela. Ngaphandle koko, iIndiya ngoku ininzi ehostela ye-backpacks hostels apho ungabonisana nabanye abahambi.