Ngaba Unxibe Umnyama, Iingubo Zomlilo?
Kungekude kakhulu ndaya kwi-funeral service e-Phoenix. Kwakukho ngo-Agasti, kwaye amaqondo amashishini ngamnye ngosuku elo live ngaphezu kwe 110 ° F. Ukungazange kube yinye kwiminyaka emininzi, ndifumene icebiso elincinci elincinci kwizinto ezifanelekileyo zembatho ezinokuba zihlala entlango yaseMzantsi-ntshona, ngokukodwa ngeenyanga zasehlotyeni (sineenyanga ezintlanu zasehlobo apha) xa amaqondo ashushu ngaphezu kwama-digridi angama-100.
Nazi ezinye zezigqibo emva kokuphanda nokucela abahlobo / abahlobo. Ezi ngongoma zisebenza ngokubanzi kwiindawo ezininzi zase-United States ehlobo, kunye nakwezinye iinyanga. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ndenza iingcamango apha: ukuba umngcwabo awunalo umntu ohloniphekileyo, intloko karhulumente, okanye umntu onomngcwabo uya kuthungelwa; ukuba umngcwabo awunxulumene nenkolo edinga ukuba ingubo ethile okanye intloko igqoke kumadoda okanye ngabafazi; ukuba umngcwabo wenkonzo uqhubekile kumangcwaba okanye kwindawo yokunqula, kungekhona elunxwemeni okanye ngasemva.
- Ukuba inkolo ngokwayo ayinayo imfuno yesikhokelo senhloko okanye isitya, akukho mfuneko yokugqoka enye kwesi sihlandlo ukuba awuyi kubeka ingubo. Ukuba inxalenye yesevisi iya kuba ngaphandle kwelanga elitshisayo , kunjalo, isicuku (kungekhona i-cap-baseball) ingaba yinto efanelekileyo. Isambulela, njengoko kuboniswe kwisithombe, sisebenza.
- Awunayo ukuphuma kwaye uthenge isambatho esimnyama okanye ugqoke omnyama ukuba awunayo. Umkhumbi, umthunzi, okanye umbala omnyama okanye othulisiweyo ufanelekile.
- Abaninzi abasetyhini banxiba i-slacks ngoku, ngoko ke ukuba ingubo ikhululekile kuwe okanye ungenayo eyona nto ifanelekileyo, i-dark slacks ilungile. I-gaucho ibhulukhwe okanye i-capris ehlambulukileyo inokuba yinto efanelekileyo.
- Kubantu, iifaneleko zihlala zifanelekile, kodwa ukuba i-suit ayiyiyo into oyikhethayo yebhanki elincinci kumbala oqinileyo, umbala omnyama uya kusebenza. Iikhati yokugqoka (ngokuchasene nekhati yegalufu okanye i-tee shirt) ifanelekile.
- Kubafazi, iingubo kufuneka zizithobe. Ngaloo nto ndiyathetha ukuba i-neckline ephahlayo, isambatho esingenagqabi okanye i-spandex eqinile ayilona khetho olufanelekileyo. Ukuba unxibe i-slacks, khetha i-blouse enoba ngumbala oqinileyo okanye iphetshana elifihlakeleyo. Iintyatyambo zasendle okanye i-giraffe eprintiweyo imibala mhlawumbi ayifanelekanga apha. I-blazer elula, i-vesti okanye i-shirt-jacket iya kuba yinto enhle, xa unenkxalabo malunga nokunyuka ngaphakathi kwezakhiwo zomoya.
- Ndiyifunde ukuba akulungile ukubonisa amahlombe emngcwabeni. Nantsi entlango, andiyikholelwa ukuba oko kuyinyaniso. Ingubo engenamikhono okanye i-blouse ingaba yinto enhle, ukuba, kwakhona, ayibonakali.
- Kubantu, i-necktie ilungile kwaye ifanele ibe yimfihlelo. Kwakhona, ngaphandle kokuba umzekelo othile kumbutho, gcina iphethini elula kwaye imibala iphele. Xa kushushu, i-neckties ithathwa njengeyakhethwa e-Phoenix.
- Iimfatho ezifanelekileyo ezikwindoda kunye nabasetyhini kuthetha ukuba akukho zicathulo, i-slippers, flip flops. Ngaba izidada ezivulekileyo zokuvula abafazi abafanelekileyo? Andiboni ukuba kutheni. Kuthiwani nge-pantyhose? Bambalwa abafazi banxiba i-pantyhose ehlobo apha. Amadoda kufuneka agqoke izicathulo ezivaliweyo, kungekhona izicathulo.
- Ukuba le nkonzo iyenzela umntu owayeyilungu lempi okanye inhlangano enomgangatho ofanayo, ukugqoka loo mfaniswano ingamkeleka.
Ngoko ke ndingayicinga ngengubo engafanelekanga ngenkonzo yomngcwabo? Iidrath, ijee, iikhati, i-tennis, i-dress, i-moos, i-sundresses, iingubo ze-cocktail, i-red carpet fashions, nantoni na enokuyigqoka ukuze nidlale i-tennis, i-softball okanye kwi-gym. Kakade ke, ukuba uneminyaka engaphantsi kwe-14, loo mcimbi uhluke ngokupheleleyo.
Gcinani ekhumbule ukuba nakubushushu behlobo , iqondo lohlobo lwezambatho zakho kufuneka lufaneleke kwimeko kunye nesiganeko. Ingaba umthendeleko kwiindawo eziphezulu kakhulu, kwibalabhu yelizwe? Ingaba inkonzo yinkonzo encinci, yentsapho kuphela okanye imicimbi enkulu, yoluntu? Andikwazi ukwenza izitatimende ezicacileyo kuzo zonke iimeko kodwa kukho iimbono ezimbalwa eziqhelekileyo ezifanele zisebenze kwiimeko ezininzi:
- Awuhambi kwesi siganeko ukuphazamisa abanye okanye ukufumana iqabane. Ukhona ukuhlonipha umntu oye wadlula kwaye uhlawulela imbeko yakhe kwintsapho yakhe.
- Isambatho sakho kufuneka sihloniphe eso sihlandlo. Yintoni ocinga ukuba umntu ofile uya kucinga ngeengubo zakho? Kuthiwani malunga nosapho?
- Wena kunye nesambatho sakho akufanele kube yimbindi yokuqwalasela kule ngqungquthela.
- Ukuba awukwazi ukugqiba ukuba ngaba ingubo oyikhethileyo ifanelekileyo, khetha enye into. Ukuba ungathandabuzeki, kholosa izilwanyana zakho.
- Ukuba kushushu kakhulu kwaye uya kuba ngaphandle kweyiphi na inxalenye yomcimbi, qiniseka ukuba nantoni na enxibayo ayikho into efanelekileyo kwaye ilinen elula. Yiba lukhululekile. Emva kwakho konke, kuya kutshisa ngaphandle kwaye usenokuma ixesha elithile.
- I-antiperspirant ngokuqinisekileyo iya kulungiswa, kodwa qaphela ukuba kunokubakhokelela kunye nabantu abaninzi banomdla kumnandi kunye ne-colognes.
- Ngaba unxibe yonke imhlophe okanye ibomvu okanye ifanki eshushu kumngcwabo? Ngaba unxibe ingubo emfutshane kakhulu okanye ibhulukwe kakhulu? Mhlawumbi akukho mntu uya kukucela ukuba ushiye, kodwa ngaphandle kokuba wenze inkcazo ethile (mhlawumbi umntu ogqithisile wayemthanda umbala obomvu kunye nawo onke amalungu omndeni abuzwa ukuba agqoke i-pink) andiyi kuyenza.
- Ungadluli kwi-accessorize kwaye ungafaki ukukhangela okukhulu. Kulula kakhulu.
Ukugcina okulula akuthethi ukuba ufanele ukhangele ukukhupha. Unokubonisa isitayela esihle kunye nentlonipho ngexesha elinye. Nantsi ingcebiso engundoqo endiya kuyenza: xa ungathandabuzeki, unxibe into ongayigqoba kwintetho yeholide enomsebenzi wobugcisa kwishishini, njengebhanki okanye iqumrhu lomthetho, nje ngombala omnyama. Awukwazi ukungahambi ndawo.
Ngoko nantsi into endiyazi ngayo: andiyena umyili wefestile, umcebisi-mali okanye umqeqeshi we-etiquette. Ndingomntu owayefuna ingcebiso malunga nokuba yiyiphi ingubo efanelekileyo yokungcwaba ngosuku olushushu, ehlobo lasePenienix.