Yintoni Okumele Uyazi Ngama Hymen Ngaphambi Kokuhlwa Kwakho
Yintoni i Hymen?
I-hymen, okanye "intloko yamantombazana," yimbumba encinci, enomzimba kwamanye amantombazana kunye nabasetyhini abancinci abafumaneka kwindawo yokuvula isini. Ngokuqhelekileyo i-hymen ine-perforation ephakathi, leyo inokujikeleza okanye ixilwe, kwaye ngegazi lokuya esikhathini uya kuhamba.
Kwangexesha elide, kwakukholelwa ukuba i-hymen ehambelanayo yayingububungqina bentombi yentombazana, njengoko loo nto yayingumqobo wokubambisana ngesondo.
Ngesondo kunye neHymen
I-hymen ehambelana nayo ingatyulwa kwaye ihlukaniswe yipenisi edibeneyo ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo. Ngenxa yoko, ibhinqa eliyintombi inokuziva ixakeke emva kunye / okanye igazi. Ukuba intlungu okanye ukuphuma kwegazi kuqhubeka, ukubonisana nodokotela kulandelelana. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, akuyi kuba negazi okanye intlungu echaphazelekayo xa yonke i-hymen ichithwe.
Ukongeza kwi-penis-ubulili, iindlela zesondo zokwenza "i-deflowering" intombazana (enye inkolelo yokukhupha i-hymen) ibandakanya:
- Ukufakela umnwe ngokukrakra okanye ungene kwisisu
- Ukugcoba nge-vibrator ene-phallic-shaped, dildo okanye esinye isixhobo esinjalo
Ngaba i-Hymen Matter?
Kwezinye iimeko ezizigugu, izilwanyana ezixhomekeke emadodeni, ukugcina ubuntombi bentombazana kwaze kwaba yinto yobusuku bayo bokubanjwa njengento ebalulekileyo kunye nokuqinisekiswa kwexabiso lakhe kunye "nobumsulwa." I-Fanfare kulezo nkcubeko ingahamba kunye nomboniso "wobungqina" emva kokuzalwa kwakhe. Kwamanye amazwe, iphepha elilinamagazi lisaxhomekeka ngokuziqhenya ngaphandle komtshato wobusuku.
Namhlanje eMelika, i-hymen ilahlekelwe ixabiso layo njengekhuselo lobubuntombi njengabasetyhini abaselula kunye namadoda bahlala besondo ngaphambi komtshato. Ngaphandle kwamalungu enkolo yama-coreist, ukuba ne-hymen ngokwenene inokubonakala ibingumthwalo, kwaye "ukulahlekelwa yinto" yinto nje yokuhamba.
Inyani: Abanye abantombazana abakho iilgijine abanalo Hymen Kuzo zonke
Nangona ubukho be-hymen bubonisa ubuntombi, ukungabikho kwe-hymen akukona ubungqina bokuba intombazana ayiyintombi, oko kukuthi umntu oye walala naye.
Abasetyhini abaselula abanama-hymen banokuthi "baphule (okanye bapop) i-cherry yabo" ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, ngamanye amaxesha bengayazi. Ezinye zeendlela ezingezona zesondo apho i-hymen ziza kubrazula zi:
- Ngengozi okanye ukulimala
- Ukugibela amahhashi, ukuhamba ngebhayisikili, ukuxuma okuphezulu, okanye i-gymnastics
- Ukufakwa komnwe okanye isixhobo ngugqirha ngexesha lokuhlolwa kwe-pelvic
- Ukufakwa kweTampon
- Overzealous douching
Abasetyhini abanenkxalabo yokuba ukuxhatshazwa kwabo ngexesha lokulala kuya kuba buhlungu kwaye kudala imemori embi yobusuku bomtshato inokubuza umfazi ukuba avule i-hymen kubo.
Ukubuyisela iHymen
Kwezinye iinkcubeko ezibuyela emva, ukungabikho kwegazi emva kokuqala kwesondo kuqhubeka nokubuza imibuzo ngobuntombi bomtshakazi. Ukuzikhusela kubundlobongela kunye nokufa, abafazi abasebenzayo kule ndawo bangahle balungiselele ukuhlaziywa kwezinto, okuyiyo inkqubo yokucoca ukulungisa i-hymen ngokuyixubusha ndawonye. Kwaziwa nangokuthi i-hymenoplasty.
Uhlobo oluthile lokulungisa ukulungiswa kwempahla lunokuhlawula iindleko zamawaka ezigidi. Esikhundleni sokuthatha isilinganiselo esinzima kwaye esininzi, umntu osandul 'ukutshatyalaliswa angenza isenzo esitsha "sokuqala" sothando simkholise ngokufaka ukungena kwi-capsule ye-gelatin ephethe isifo esifana negazi ngaphambi kokulala kwesondo.
Ngubani u Hymen?
Ngokomthombo, i-hymen ibizwa ngegama likaGrike u-Hymenaeus. Unyana kaBachus noVenus, u-Hymenaeus wabizwa ngokuba ngumthi womtshato nemitshato.