Kutheni Kukho Uhlobo Lokwenyuka Ngemva Komtshato Wakho?

Izizathu zokuba ne-Honeymoon

Njengoko umtshato wakho usondela, unokuba uzibuze, kutheni unobomi? Iyintoni iholide?

Xa ucinga ngako, i-honeymoon ibiza, iyakususa ebomini bakho "boqobo," kwaye ibandakanya ukucwangcisa - xa usenokuba uzive ukhululekile ngemininingwane yomtshato. Akumangalisi ukuba ezinye izibini zithatha isigqibo sokuba zingabi ne-honeymoon, okanye ubuncinane ukulibazisa.

Nangona kunjalo kukho izizathu ezifanelekileyo neziphoqeleyo zokucwangcisa i-honeymoon kwaye uyibeke ngokusondeleyo kumtshato wakho ngokusemandleni.

Ezi zizona zizathu ezifanelekileyo zokuba ne-honeymoon:

Ukuhlaziya . Ngona imitshato elula kakhulu ingabangela uxinzelelo kwaye iyakhathaza umfazi nomyeni. Kwaye ukuba unjengabalingane abaninzi, uza kuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye neendwendwe zakho kuneqabane lakho elitsha emtshatweni wakho. I-honeymoon yithuba lakho lokugqiba kunye kunye.

Ukubhiyozela . Utshatile! Ekugqibeleni! Emva kwexesha lonke, ucinga, kunye nemali ezinikezelwe kwiqela elikhulu, zinike ixesha lokuzikhawulela kwaye ubhiyozele isimo esitsha njengeqabane elisemthethweni.

Ukulungiswa. Nangona awukhethi uguquko lwegama , kusenokuthatha ixesha elithile ukuba ufunde ukuba ihlabathi likubone njengesiqabane.

Ukwenza Uthando . Kulungile, akudingeki ukupakisha isuskethi ukwenza oku. Kodwa ngo-honeymoon ungenza uthando lweeyure ezingaphazamiseki. Ukwenza njalo kwindawo enhle kude nekhaya kukhuthaza ukuthandana, ityala lembombo lomtshato oqinileyo.

U kuhluthwa .

I-honeymoon yenzelwe ukufumana intle. Ngaba uhlala usasaza abalandeli, okanye ufuna ukuzama unyango okokuqala? Ngandlela-thile, cinga ukuba uhlalutyo oluneenxa zonke (ukuba ushiywe kwiindawo ezitshizileyo, unokwazi ukucela i-massage kwindawo engaphandle, eyimfihlo yangaphandle). Yaye ukuba ufumana uvuyo lwazo zonke izinto ezichaphazelekayo, ngokuqinisekileyo, yinto yakho yokulala kunye nesigumbi sakho siseduze.

Emva kokuzonwabisa okunjalo, unokubuyela ekhaya ukhululekile kwaye ukhanyisa.

U kuhlola . I-honeymoon ithumela isibini ehlabathini kunye kunye, kwaye yenye yezinto ezivuyisayo zokufumana iindawo ezintsha kunye. Ingaba ukhetha ukuhlolisisa ngokwakho, kunye nemephu okanye incwadi yesikhokelo, uthathe uhambo, okanye uqeshe umkhombisi-bucala, uya kufumana indawo engakumbi kwindawo oya kuyo ukuze wenze uphando oluthile ngaphambi kokuba uhambe. Ngale ndlela uza kuba nombono ongcono wezinto ongaziphosiyo.

Ukungcamla. Ngaphandle kokuba uchitha ubusuku bakho bentshontsho kwi-Airbnb, thengisa ukutya kwaye upheke kwiholide yakho, ujonge ukuxhamla ezinye zeendawo zokucoca ezikufutshane nawe. Ukusuka kwiimarike zamafama ukuya kwiindawo zokutya eziqhelekileyo ukuya kwiindawo zokudlela ezimhlophe zelinen e-white-cloth, zizonakalisa ukuphathwa kwenyama kunye nezitya.

Ukulala kwiBhede entsha . Ingaba ubukade usibamba i-zzz kwindawo yokuhlala yokuqashisa, indawo yokulala, kwindawo yokulala okhulele kwindawo yokulala nomama, okanye kwi-mateti enjalo kwindawo oye wabelana ngayo, ujonge (kodwa kungekhona-eqinile) matitha apho ujongane. Ukuba ihotele efanelekileyo, inokuthi ibe nayo (kwaye ithengise) iyimpawu yamatitha, njenge-Bedroom Bed efunyenwe kwiihotele zaseWestin. Mhlawumbi oko kuya kukukholisa ukuba udinga umbhede omkhulu ukuze uqale ubomi obatshatileyo emva kohlobo lokutshata.

Kwaye ukuba kunjalo, ungabhali phantsi kwiimakhishithi (ukubala okuphezulu kwintambo ilula kakhulu) kunye ne-splurge kwi-pillow down pillows.

Ukucwangcisa Ikusasa . I-honeymoon inike ixesha elithile elithulileyo lokucinga ngekamva labo. Ngaba ufuna abantwana okanye uzalisekile? Uhlobo luni lentsapho ocinga ngalo? Ufuna ukuhlala phi kwiminyaka emihlanu? Shumi? Amashumi amabini? Ngaphezulu kwamanqabunga amnandi athatyathwa kwixesha elide lokunyuka kwe-honeymoon elunxwemeni kunye nexesha lokutya kwekhandlela.

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