Kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo, abahamba ngezoqoqosho nabaninzi baye beya kwiindawo ezinqamlekileyo zokungagqibekanga njengeCzechoslovakia nePoland. Nangona amathuba okushishino kule ndawo angonwaba, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuhluka kweenkcubeko.
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Ziziphi iingcebiso onokubahamba ngezoshishino eziya ePoland?
- Kwiinkcubeko zasePoland ukubuliswa okuqhelekileyo kukubambisana ngokuqinile. Kuye kufaneka ekuhambeni. Ukubamba kunye nokuxubha kugcinwa kubahlobo abahle kakhulu.
- Xa usenza ishishini ePoland, funda amagama athile asePoland, njenge-hello "i-dzien dobry", uhambe kakuhle "wenze widzenia", ndixolele "przepraszam", kwaye uyabulela "dziekuje". Isikhokelo esisisiseko sesiLwimi sasePolish sinokukunceda ngokubhala kakuhle
- Sumamise uze ube nokubonisa ngokulinganisela njengoko uthethayo. Yinyaniseka, uyinyani, kwaye ugweme ukuzwakalisa i-egocentric okanye ukuziqhayisa malunga nesimo sakho okanye isimo.
- Akukho mgaqo ngokubanzi malunga nendlela abantu basePoland badibana ngayo. Kwintlanganiso yokuqala bangasebenzisa isihloko somntu okanye isibongo, nangona kunjalo, emva kweentlanganiso ezimbini okanye ezintathu ukusetyenziswa kwamagama okuqala kwamkelwa.
- Abantu bezentengiselwano zasePoland bathanda ukuqhuba iingxoxo kwiintlobo ezininzi zezihloko kubandakanya ubomi boluntu, intsapho kunye nemisebenzi. Ukwenza ingxoxo, cela imibuzo evulekile eqala ukuba ngubani, yintoni, phi, nini, nini, kwaye njani.
- Xa uxoxisana nomntu othile wasePoland, ukulungelelanisa ngokwengeziwe ukuba bangabakho. Ubungqina obuqhelekileyo boshishino buya kugcina luguquke ibe yintetho enobungane kunye nokubuyela emuva!
- Yiba nexesha. Ukuba awukwazi ukuhamba ngexesha, qiniseka ukuba uxelele wonke umntu malunga neemeko ezilibambezele, ngaphandle koko ungabonakala ungathembeki.
- Isiqhumiso sivame ukwenza ngaphambi okanye emva kokutya. Ukuba uphakamisa umtya wokubaluleka kubalulekile ukulondoloza ukujonga kwamehlo. Musa ukusela ukude umphathi wakho ecebise i-toast. Ukuba umphathi wakho umi xa ecela isilwanyana, kunjalo nawe. EPoland i-toast yinto eqhelekileyo is 'na zdrowie!'
- Kubalulekile ukubonisa ingqalelo ngokukhethekileyo kubantu abadala. Ngokomzekelo, xa izithuthi zikawonkewonke zibaleka, abantu abancinci kulindeleke ukuba banike izihlalo zabo kubantu abadala.
Naziphi na iingcebiso zekcubeko zenkcubeko?
- Xa ungena kwigumbi lokuhlangana, linda umphathi wakho ukuba ubonise apho uza kuhlala khona. Ukuba kukho abantu ongabaziyo, linda umphathi wakho ukuba azalise izethulo.
- Ukuba ungoqela, thintela ukuqhuba iingxoxo zangasese. Kungcono ukubandakanya wonke umntu kwingxoxo.
- Yilungiselele ngokupheleleyo nayiphi na intlanganiso okanye intetho, kwaye qi ni sekise ukuba unalo igunya lokunika imvume evela kwicala lakho.
- Ukongeza kwiPoland, isiNgesi okanye isiJamani ziilwimi ezininzi zentengiso.
- Xa uhamba ngekhofi okanye ukutya, musa ukuvelisa ishishini ngaphandle kokuba benze okokuqala.
- Ngokutsho kobugcisa bePolish, izipho zinikezelwa ekuqaleni kolwalamano, ngakumbi xa oonxibelelwano zenziwa okokuqala, kwaye ekupheleni kwempumelelo yezoshishino.
- Izipho ezilungileyo kakhulu zihlala zizinto eziqhelekileyo zenkcubeko yakho. Ukuba uvela eSwitzerland, ungathenga i-tsholeta ngokukhethekileyo. Esinye isipho esihle yincwadi echaza ilizwe lakho okanye ummandla ovela kulo owenza unxibelelwano lomntu.
- Ukuba ufuna ukwazi amaqabane akho oshishino angcono, bamema indebe yekofi, isidlo sasemini, okanye isidlo sakusihlwa.
5 Iingcebiso eziphambili zeengxoxo
- Bakuvuyela ukuthetha ngokuhamba kunye namava kwamanye amazwe.
- Xoxa ngemfundo yakho kunye namava omsebenzi
- Iimpawu ezihlaziyileyo kunye namabali zihlala zixabiswa
- Ukuzilibazisa kunye nezinto ezithandwa ngumntu siqu zihloko ezilungileyo
- Kukho uthando lobugcisa, umculo kunye nenkcubeko
5 Iingxoxo ezibalulekileyo zeengxoxo
- Gwema ezopolitiko ngokubanzi, ngaphandle kokuba zivelise kuqala
- Musa ukugxininisa okanye ukuziqhayisa ngemali nobutyebi
- Gwema ukuthetha ngezandla zakho kwiipokethi zakho
- Gwema ukuxoxa ngenkolo, ngaphandle kokuba bayifake kuqala
- Musa ukuhlala kunye nesinye isikhumba sokuphumla kwelinye idolo
Yintoni ebalulekileyo ukwazi malunga nokuthatha isigqibo okanye inkqubo yokuxoxisana?
- Linda. EPoland, inkqubo yokwenza izigqibo ihamba kancane kuneNyakatho Melika. Yilungiselele ukuba ube neendibano ezininzi ngaphambi kokugqiba intengiso yezoshishino.
- Iintetho zePoland zihlala zigcinwe. Ixesha lokuthulisa ngexesha lokuxoxisana akuqhelekanga. Musa ukuzalisa ukuthula ngokuthetha okungadingekile. Ulwazi olubalulekileyo yinto ebalulekileyo.
- Abantu basePoland baya kuxoxisana neqela labantu kunokuba linye. Ukuba ufumana ithemba labo, ngokuqhelekileyo liya kulandelwa yintrakthi.
Naziphi na iingcebiso kubafazi?
- Abasetyhini baninzi ababandakanyekayo kwishishini ePoland
Nawuphi na umcebisi ngokuthinta?
- Kubalulekile ukuba udibanise iliso ngqo kwintetho
- Abantu basePoland banokukhathalela ulwimi lomzimba kwaye bawuqwalasele ngokucophelela, ngoko-ke linganisela imilinganiselo yakho.
- Gwema ukubonisa ngokugqithiseleyo okanye kuvaliwe ulwimi lomzimba