Bhala kwaye unike i-Greatest Toast

Nabani na oye kumtshato uye weva umntu enika umtya womtshato ngexesha lokumkela. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ihanjiswa nguyise womtshakazi, indoda efanelekileyo, okanye umhlobo osondeleyo okanye isihlobo somtshakazi okanye umyeni.

Ukuba ngummkeli wesiganeko (okt long-winded and embarrassing) umtya wesiganeko emtshatweni wam kwaye ube ngumndwendwe ophulaphule ngokuphulaphula abanye ukuziphatha kakubi komtshato / ukutshatyalaliswa kwemitshato yokutshata komtshato, ndinika ezi ngcebiso kulabo abafuna ukubhala kwaye kunika umtya omkhulu womtshato oya kukhunjulwa ngokuthanda.

Ubunzima: Kunzima

Ixesha elifunekayo: iiyure eziyi-2-3 ngaphezu kweentsuku ezimbalwa

Nantsi Indlela Yokuqala:

1. Ukuba awukwaziwa ngama-50 ekhulwini leqela elidibeneyo, cwangcisa ukuzichonga ngokufutshane uze uchaze ulwalamano lwakho nesibini ngaphambi kokuba uqalise kwi-toast. (Kodwa khumbula: Kuthetha ngabo, kungekhona wena!) Emva koko qalisa umgca womtshato ngokunikela ngengxelo ngokumangalisa / okuthintekayo / okukhethiweyo / okuyikhunjulwayo / okuyingqayizivele (okanye gcwalisa umcimbi wakho).
2. Njengentetho, isilwanyana somtshato sinesiqalo, esiphakathi, kunye nokuphela. Ungacwangcisi ukunikela ngesigqithiso somtshato ngaphandle kwe-intromptu ngaphandle kokuba ulungile kakhulu ukucinga ngeenyawo zakho. Kunoko, phambi komtshato, bhala phantsi iingcamango zakho malunga nalo mbhangqwana. Abantu ababathandayo bathi ntoni ngomdlalo wabo? Yintoni eyenzeka kuwe malunga nomanyano wabo? Ngaba babelane ngeminqweno okanye inzondelelo?
3. Ukuchonga uze uchaze iimpawu ezilungileyo malunga nomtshakazi, umyeni, kunye nezi zibini njengoko uqala ukuthabatha amanqaku. Ukuba ufuna ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza kwimemori yesikhombiso somtshato wakho, kukulungele ukukhetha imemori ebandakanya zombini nomyeni. Ngaba kukho into ekhethekileyo kwindlela abadibana ngayo? Okanye ukubandakanya kwabo? Ezi ziyakwenza i-anecdotes ezithakazelisayo.

1. Okubaluleke kakhulu, isilwanyana somtshato osihlangulayo kufuneka sifudumale, sizenzele kwaye sifutshane. Ukuba ungumhlali odibanisayo, faka amahlaya. Ukuba awukho, yidlale ngokuchanekileyo. Ngelixa unokuba nesifiso sokuzonwabisa, gcina ingqalelo ukuba umtshakazi nomyeni wakho baya kukhunjulwa ngonaphakade. Naluphi na ukuklolodela kufuneka kube mnene kwaye kulungile.

1. Utshitshise into oyithethayo? I-Intanethi igcwele izicaphuno ezinkulu ongayisebenzisa ukuqala intetho yakho okanye ukuphefumlelwa.
2. Unganikeli umtya womtshato ukuba unxila. Ikhefu.
3. Ukuba umkhwa womtshato ubhalwa ngumfaki-zithombe okanye umbonisi we-videographer, tyelela indlu yangasese ngaphambi kokuba unike i-toast ukuba iqonde iinwele zakho nezambatho.
4. Ezinye izinto: Musa ukuthetha ngamantombazana aphelileyo, amantombazana, okanye abatshatileyo emdlalweni womtshato. Musa ukuthetha ngeendleko zomtshato okanye izipho zomtshato. Musa ukuthetha ngezicwangciso zesikhathi esizayo esi sibini sinokuthi sithembe kuwe. Oku kuquka ukukhulelwa kunye nabantwana.
5. Ukuphelisa umkhwa womtshato kwibala eliphezulu kunye nethemba. Bhengeza zonke iimfuno ezilungileyo kwigumbi lomntu omtsha ovuyayo, ophilileyo, ocebileyo.
6. Ekugqibeleni, cela iqela elidibeneyo ukuba lidibanise nawe kumtya womtshato, phakamisa iglasi yakho yeChampagne uze uthi, "Ku (igama lomtshakazi) kunye (igama lomyeni) ...."
7. Vumela wonke umntu ukuba umkhwenkwe womtshato uphelele ngokungongeza yakho intetho ehlambulukileyo ye-hatch, njengeCheers! okanye uhlanga uSalut !, L'chaim !, I-sante !, Za vashe zdorovye !, Prosit !, Skal! kunye nalokhu.

Iingcebiso

1. Gcina umgca womtshato omfutshane, ngaphantsi kwemizuzu emihlanu.
2. Gxininisa kwi sibini, kwaye ubhekane nabo xa uhlawula. Gwema ukuthetha ngomtshato wakho okanye ubuhlobo.

1. Gcina ukhumbule ukuba abazali kunye nabantu abadala baya kuba khona, ngoko musa ukusebenzisa ubuluhlaza.
2. Zivumele ixesha ngaphambi kokuba uhlaziye umtya wokutshata. Ukuba udla ukukhathazeka phambi kwamaqela, kulungile ukulifunda kwikhadi.
3. Musa ukwenza amahlaya angamahloni.
4. Vumela imizwa yakho efudumalayo yesi sibini.

Ingaba ufuna ntoni

• Uvakalelwa (okanye ubuncinane ukubonakala) wokuzithemba
• Izwi elicacileyo elithwalayo
• Iglasi le- champagne
• Ukuqwalaselwa kweendwendwe
• Smile.

Mhlawu ngephutha

Ngaba ufanele ukhangele omnye umntu okhubekayo ngomtya wesibini womtshato - mhlawumbi umntu unxiliswe, atyitywe ngamatye, athukuthele, atyunde ulwimi okanye aphelelwe yintliziyo - yenza into eyiyo kwaye uyimise ngenxa yomtshakazi nomyeni. Sukuma, bulela isithethi, pha kamisa iglasi uze uyigcobe isibini ngaphandle kokubhekisela kwintlekele eyandulele.