Ulwimi lwabaQabane abasebenzisa kwi-Vow Ukuvuselela
Ufumana njani amagama ukubonisa uthando lwakho oluhlala kwiqabane lakho lomntu xa uvuselela izithembiso zakho kuluntu? Ukuhlaziya ulwimi oluhlaziyiweyo lunokuba mnandi, lunomdla, lukhulu kwaye luhle kumdlalo.
Ngezinye izibhambathiso zokuvuselela, amagama anganikwa ungosaziso, nokuba ngaba ilungu labefundisi okanye isihlobo esicacileyo okanye umhlobo wentsapho. Kwabanye, isi sibini sinikezela sona. Ekubeni isifungo sokuvuselela asikho isiganeko esisemthethweni, ulwimi luyakubonakalisa ubuntu bakho kunye nobuchule.
Akukho lizwi elithile elifunekayo ngexesha lesifungo sokuvuselela kwaye ukhululekile ukulungiswa kolwimi - kunye nomkhosi - njengoko uthanda.
Indlela Yokuqala Ukubhala I-Vow yakho Yokuvuselela
Beka bucala ixesha lokuba ube yedwa kunye neengcamango zakho. Ukuba ayithe cwaka ekhaya, tyelela ilayibrari yakho yasekuhlaleni okanye ivenkile yekhofi kunye nekhompyutheni yakho okanye ipeni kunye ne-pad. Amagama angeke afike kuwe ngokukhawuleza, kodwa kukho iindlela zokuba baqale ukuhamba. Igama lokuvuselelwa kwesibhambathiso linokuba luninzi okanye elifutshane njengoko isibini esithandayo.
Cinga emva kweminyaka oye wachitha ngayo. Ziziphi iimpawu ezibalaseleyo, kwaye amaxesha athetha ntoni kuwe? Unokuba ufuna ukuvuma abantwana bakho kunye nezinye izinto ezifezekileyo zomtshato wakho, kunye nokukhankanya izinto ezibalulekileyo kunye nokunqoba kwakho.
Elinye iqhosha eliwusizo kukuba wenze uludwe, uqale ngomnyaka odibana nawo kuqala. Akunjalo wonke umntu ekuhlanganiseni kwakho unokukwazi ukuba ibali, kwaye eli lixesha elihle lokuwabelana ngalo.
Nika iinkcukacha: Uneminyaka emingaki? Liliphi ixesha? Wachitha njani ixesha kunye. Ziziphi izinto zokuqala ozibonayo? Uyakhumbula ukuba wambethe ntoni na kwaye uhamba phi usuku lwakho lokuqala? Yintoni eyokukhanga kuqala kumlingane wakho?
Emva koko uqhubekele phambili kwisiganeko esilandelayo oye wafikelela kunye.
Ngaba kukho ibali elihle okanye elibuhlungu lokuxelela malunga naxa udibeneyo? Ukuba uyigcina imfutshane kwaye ufike kwinqanaba, uya kugcina abaphulaphuli bakho bavakalisi.
Ulwimi kwisigqibo sakho sokuvuselela kufuneka sibonakalise ubomi oye wahlala kunye kunye neemvakalelo zakho. Kuyafaneleka ukuba ube nomvakalelo, kwaye mhlawumbi u-mushy, ukuba yiyo indlela ovakalelwa ngayo ngeqabane lakho.
Fumana Ugqozi kumazwi kaManye
Amazwi akho akufanele abe yintlandlolo ngokukhawuleza xa ephuma enhliziyweni. Ukuphefumlelwa kukugqithiseleyo, kwiincwadi zothando zengoma kunye neengcaphuno ezidumileyo neengqiqo kwizinto ezininzi ezibonisa iimvakalelo zakho:
- Yintoni uthando?
- Emtshatweni
- Izidumi zithi ...
- Ukukrazula
- Uthando lokuqala
- Iintetho zeTender
- Ukuthandana nokuthanda
Ukuba awufumani amagama abhenkisayo kulezo zicaphuno, mhlawumbi abayithathi imimoya yomtshato wakho. Ababini abahlala ukuhleka bafumane iingcamango kwezi ngcaphuno ezihlekisayo . Mhlawumbi ucacise ukuzonwabisa kwento yokuzonwabisa ekwabelwana ngayo okanye ukuchitha ixesha kungenza ukuba amagama akho aphile. Umzekelo, izibini eziye zachitha ixesha kunye nokuhlola ihlabathi zifuna ukufaka inkcazo ekuhambeni .
Kwakhona Qaphela:
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Isampula Vow Uhlaziyo loLwimi
Ukuba unamathela kwigama lakho lokuvuselela isifungo, unokufumana kukunceda ukusebenzisa isampula elandelayo njengesiseko.
Yenza ngokwezifiso njengokuba ubona kufanelekile.
[faka igama lokuqala lomlingani],
Ndimi kwakhona phambi kwakho
Ukuhlaziya izibhambathiso zethu zomtshato.
Ndiyathembisa ukuba ndihlale ndomelele ngothando lwam,
Ndinyamekela kwam,
Kwaye ndingenakuzithemba kwithemba lam.
E gameni lakho konke esiyidale ndawonye
Kwaye sonke esiya kuba,
Ndikunika isandla sam
Yaye yam intliziyo
Njengomlingani wakho, umthandi wakho, kunye nomhlobo wakho wokuphila.
Emva kweVow Ukuvuselela
Ezinye izibini zithatha amagama awayezathethileyo kwaye ziguqula ukuba zihambe emva koko. Isicatshulwa singaba calligraphed kwiphepha elihle, lifakwe kwisiqwenga sokubhabisa, kwaye uziphakamise ngokuziqhenya ekhaya lakho kwindawo ezukileyo.