Xa Abahlobo Nentsapho Musa Ukuxhasa Iingoma Zakho Zokuhamba

Indlela yokutshintsha iingqondo zabo nokuzikholisa ukuba zivuyise wena

Xa ndiqala ukuvakalisa ukuba ndifuna ukuhamba rhoqo kwixesha elide kwikholeji, ndifumene impendulo edibeneyo kubahlobo bam. Nangona abanye babo bebancedisa ngokukhawuleza kwaye banokuthi babuze ukuba bangayithatha, uninzi lwawo aluvumelani nesigqibo sam.

Ndaxelelwa ukuba andinakukhathalela, ukuba ndibalekele iimbopheleleko zam kwikholeji. Ndixelelwe ukuba ndimele ndihlale ekhaya ukuze ndigxilwe kwizifundo zam, okanye ndijolise ekuqalekeni komsebenzi.

Ndaxelelwa ukuba ukuhamba kwakuyinkcitho yexesha kunye nemali, ukuba yayingakhuselekanga kwaye andiyi kuvuya nayo. Ndakuva zonke izizathu zokungahambi ngokuhamba.

Nangona kunjalo, nangona ndifumana inkxaso encinci, ndaqhubeka ndilandela amaphupha am ukuhamba kwaye ndakwazi ukuguqula iingqondo zabantu bonke abandikhuthaza ukuba ndingabashiyi. Ukuba unzima nabahlobo kunye nosapho abangabancedi, zama oku okulandelayo:

Chaza ukuba Kutheni ufuna ukuhamba

Isizathu esikhulu sokungabikho kwenkxaso kunokuba kuba ngabahlobo bakho kunye nosapho abaqondi isizathu sokuba ufuna ukuhamba. Ndingumntu wokuqala kwintsapho yam ukuba ndize ndiqwalasele ukuhamba kwexesha elide ukuze abazali bam babekhathazeke kakhulu. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba ndicacise ukuba kutheni ndifuna ukuhamba, baqonda ukuba kubalulekile ukuba ndihambe.

Zibuze ukuba kutheni ufuna ukuhamba kwaye uzame ukuthumela loo nto kubantu ngendlela ezolile kunye nengqiqo. Kwaye, kwakungenxa yokuba ndandonwabile ngakumbi xa ndicinga ngelizwe elitsha.

Ndichitha yonke imininingwana yokujonga ngamehlo kumaphu kunye nokufunda malunga neendawo endikufuna ukuzivakashela. Xa ndachaza ukuba into eyenza ndonwabile kakhulu kwihlabathi yayihamba, wonke umntu wayeqonda ngakumbi.

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Abantu abaninzi abangazange bahambe bakholelwa ukuba ukuhamba emazweni akude kunobungozi kakhulu.

Buza abazali bakho ukuba ngaba baya kuxhalaba xa uchitha iveki e Chicago, uze uqhathanise izinga lokubulala laseChicago kwiidolophu ezininzi ezinkulu emhlabeni jikelele. Ngethemba, uya kuba neenjongo zokubeka iingqondo zabo ngokukhulula ngokubonisa ukuba amazwe amaninzi akhuselekile, ukuba angakhuselekanga, kunokuba i-United States.

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Musa ukumemezela ukuba ufuna ukuhamba kwaye ngoko nangoko ushiye inyanga yohambo lwaseMzantsi eMzantsi Melika. Endaweni yoko, gqiba ukuhamba ekhaya ngeentsuku ezimbalwa ngexesha ukubonisa ukuba usapho lwakho ukwazi ukuhamba. Uya kubabonisa ukuba unokugcina ukhuselekile kwaye uhambe kwindawo engaqhelekanga ngokulula. Xa sele bekhululekile xa uhambahamba ekhaya, intloko kwilizwe elikufutshane, njengeChanada okanye iMexico, kwaye uchithe iveki apho. Ukuba ungenayo ingxaki kwaye intsapho yakho ihlala ikhululekile, qwalasela indawo ehamba phambili -Yurophu, e-mpuma ye-Asia, kwaye, ewe, eMzantsi Melika.

Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba unobungozi abangabancediyo kunye nosapho, ungayeki kwiiholide zakho zokuhamba nje. Batshele ukuba kutheni ukuhamba kubalulekile, bonise ukuba uhambo lukhuselekile, kwaye ubonise ukuba unako ukuhamba ngokulula.