Xa ucinga nge-honeymoon yakho, kunengqiqo ukulindela ixesha elichithwa ekuboneni indawo, ukwabelana ngeentlanga ezitsha, ukuthatha imifanekiso emininzi kunye kunye nokuzibandakanya ngokuthanda ukuthanda uthando xa ungenawo ixesha kunye nendawo yokuhlala yodwa ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka. Nangona kunjalo, kukho enye into enokuthi yenzeke: Ngaphandle kokuba umfazi ohamba ngesini esithandana nomfazi okanye oqaphelayo, unokukhulelwa.
Akubona bonke abalingani abafuna okanye baceba ukuqala intsapho ekuqaleni komtshato wabo. Ukuze ugweme ukukhulelwa ngexesha lakho lokutshata (okanye nakweyiphi na ixesha), kubalulekile ukuba usebenzise ukulawula ukuzalwa.
Kwabanye abasandul 'ukutshata kwintsapho yabo, ubungozi obukhulu kakhulu bulahleka xa bebona zonke izinto ezikhangayo ngaphandle kwegumbi lokulala. Kwabanye, ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo mngcipheko ongazifuni ukuthatha.
Indlela Yokugwema Ukukhulelwa
Ulawulo lokuzalwa lungasetyenziswa ngabantu okanye ngabafazi kwaye indlela nganye inezinzuzo kunye nokungonakali. Kukho iintlobo ezintlanu zokulawulwa kokuzalwa ezikhoyo: zemvelo, ngaphaya kwekharityhulam, umyalelo, isigxina, kunye noxinzelelo.
Xoxa nomlingane wakho ngaphambi komtshato wakho uhlobo lolawulo lokuzalwa ofuna ukuyisebenzisa ukuphepha ukukhulelwa. Naluphi na omnye okanye udibaniso lweendlela ozikhethayo, kufuneka usebenzise ulawulo lokuzalwa rhoqo xa ulala nomzimba ukuphepha ukukhulelwa. (Kwaye ukuba unokuzibuza, ewe, ungathenga iikhondom kwi-intanethi.)
Xa liphuthumayo
Ngethuba lokutshatyalaliswa kwentsholongwane, kuhlala kudala ithuba lokungaphumeleli kokulawula ukuzalwa njengokuba ikhondom ishiya okanye iphula, ikhunjulwe okanye ikhupha iipilisi zokulawula ukuzalwa okanye imeko efanayo evumela ukuba insimi ihlangabezane neqanda elingenakulinganiswa. Ngethamsanqa, ukukhulelwa kwexesha eliphuthumayo (eyaziwa nangokuthi "ipilisi yamasasa") ingasetyenziselwa ukuphepha ukukhulelwa.
Kukho uninzi lwamachiza okukhusela ngokukhawuleza okukhuselekileyo atholakalayo kwifomu yepilisi. Eyona nto eyaziwayo kwaye eyona ekhoyo kakhulu iyathengiswa phantsi kwegama legama B.
Qaphela ukuba ukukhulelwa kwexesha elingxamisekileyo akumele kusetyenziswe ukulawulwa kokuzalwa rhoqo njengoko iipilisi zinokuba neziphumo ezibi kwaye akukho mntu ufuna ukuchitha intsalela yakhe yokuvalelwa phantsi kwemozulu. Kwakhona, qaphela ukuba kuxhomekeke apho uhamba khona, iimveliso ezinjengePlani B ayinakufumaneka ngokukhawuleza-ngoko ukucwangciswa kokuhamba kwangaphambili kuya kuhamba ixesha elide ekukuncedeni ukuba unwebe uncedo lwentlungu uze ulungele ukuqala intsapho.
Thenga Isicwangciso B sokukhulelwa ngokukhawuleza kwi-intanethi kunye nokugcinwa okukhuselekileyo, yikhiphe ekuthwaleni imithwalo .
Xa Kufuneka Uphephe Ngokusemandleni Ukukhusela I-Honeymoon
Kuze kubekho igonyo okanye unyango kwi- Zika virus , izibini ezithandana nabo kwilizwe elichaphazelekayo kufuneka ziqaphele ngakumbi ngokusebenzisa ulawulo lokuzalwa. Iintsana ezizalwe ngabasetyhini abakhulelweyo abasuleleke ngegciwane lesifo se-Zika banamathuba okuba neziphoso ezinzima zokuzalwa. Nangemva kokuba ubuyele ekhaya, qhubeka usebenzise ukulawula ukuzalwa ubuncinane ubuncinane ezintandathu kwiinyanga ezinokuthi unqunywe ngumlumzana omncinci onokuguqula intshutshiso ye-honeymoon kwixesha lokuphila.