I-Hanukkah Etiquette kwabangewona amaYuda: Yintoni yokunika abahlobo abangamaYuda kwiHanukkah

8 Iingcebiso zokubhiyozela iHanukkah

Yintoni efanelekileyo - kwaye engalunganga - ukunika umhlobo ongumYuda okanye usebenza naye eHanukkah?

Ukuba unomdla wokuthandana nomfana ongumYuda kwaye ufuna ukunika unina into ethile yeeholide - kwaye awufuni ukuyivuthela - yiziphi izikhokelo ezingabonakaliyo? Ukuba intsapho yakho ibhiyozela iKrismesi, kwaye umhlobo wakho omhle ngumntwana ungumYuda, kufuneka ufumane ntoni kwaye nini ixesha elifanelekileyo lokunika isipho saseHanukkah?

Okanye ucinga ukuba usebenza nomntu ongumYuda, kwaye ufuna ukufumana iKrismesi: ngaba wena?

Imfihlelo Efihlekileyo Ngokuphathelene NeHanukkah: AkuyiKrismesi yamaYuda

Okokuqala, i-factoid ebalulekileyo: i-Hanukkah ayikho "iKrisimesi yamaYuda".

Iholide encinci yamaYuda, enye ibaluleke kakhulu kwimigaqo yenkolo yamaYuda kuneKrisimesi kumaKristu.

Oko kwathiwa, ngakumbi eMelika, uHanukkah uthathe isilinganiselo sokupha isipho. Ngoba? Kungenxa yokuba kwenzeka nje ukuba kwenzeke malunga nenyanga kaDisemba, ngexesha lexesha lokuthenga iKrisimesi.

8 Izinto kunye neentlawulo zeHanukkah Gift Giving

Ngomdla weeholide, zikho ezisibhozo ezisebenzayo "i-Dos and Donts" ze-Hanukkah izipho-izibonelelo ezisibhozo ngokuhlonipha ubusuku obusibhozo baseHanukkah.

1. Musa ukunika uHamu eHanukkah. Akubona wonke umntu ongumYuda onenkathalo yokutya ukutya kosher. Uninzi lwamaYuda eNew York alukho. Ngokuqhelekileyo, thintela iibhasikiti zokutya ezigqithisekayo ezinjenge-bacon yaseCanada, i-shrimp edibeneyo, i-serrano ham, i-sausage yegazi yaseNtaliyane, ibhokisi yeekhoki ezinokuhlobisa njengeSanta, okanye i-Christmas fruitcake. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba umhlobo wakho ongumYuda ungumntu oyisidlo okanye unayo i-yen ethile yokutya okungenanto-kosher, zama isitifiketi sesipho ku-popular, i-hipster-run eatery eBrooklyn ebizwa ngokuba yiTraif kwaye, ngokulinganayo, ikhona kufuphi ne-Hasidic uluntu eWilliamsburg. Okanye unako ukuwathatha eMnyangweni wamaLatke wonyaka, ngoko banokuthabatha iindidi ezahlukeneyo zomsebenzi.

1. Nika : Nika iincwadi, iimpahla, iimathoyizi, i-electronics, izixhobo, utywala, ubucwebe, uhambo lweParis okanye inyanga, imali, izipho zexesha ezinjengokufumana abantwana, okanye iminikelo yokunceda. Ngokuphathelele izipho zokutya, jonga ngasentla.
2. Musa Ukuba Ngumphungu Obalabala: Dlula kwii-PJs nge-Motif Red-and-Green Green Motif. Imibala yeKrisimesi ibomvu kwaye iluhlaza. Imibala yeHanukkah ibhakabhaka nomhlophe.

1. Nika Isipho Sakho Ngeeholide . Ukuba kuyisipho saseHanukkah, zama ukunikela ngexesha elifanelekileyo, elithetha intsuku eHanukkah. Oku akufanele kube nzima - le holide ihamba iintsuku ezisibhozo! Ubusuku bobusuku boHanukkah luni na?
2. Musa ukunika i-Creche Creche yeHanukkah. Ngomlanjana ofanayo no-# 3 ngasentla, unganiki isipho saseHanukkah esifakwe nguSantas, ii-candy, ii-snowflakes, okanye i-Christmas tree. Ngaphandle kokuba ummkeli wesipho sakho athanda i-kitsch, thintela ukunika i-Christmas creche eyenziwe ngesandla, nangona uyenqumla yonke indlela eya eBrooklyn ukusuka kwimakethe yentengiso yaseVenice.
3. Zixhomekeke kwiZipho zesiHanukkah zesiNtu, Ukuba awuqinisekanga . Kuhlala kukhuselekile ukunikezela into ethile yendabuko.

   Kwabantwana, okulingana neKrismesi yokugcina impahla i- dreidel (i-toy ekhethekileyo eneetekisi ngeelwimi zesiHebhere kwicala ngalinye), okanye intsimbi ye-tsholatshi ehlanganiswe ngephepha legolide ukuze ibonakale njengemali.

   Kubantu abadala, qwalasela ikhandlela ezintle zokupheka, ioli yokupheka, okanye incwadi yokupheka yamaYuda. Okokuthi, wakho umhlobo okanye osebenza naye unokukhetha i-foodie isipiliyoni , njengeklasi yokupheka eBrooklyn Kitchen ukuya kwincwadi yokupheka yePasika eqokelela uthuli kwindlu yokuhlala yaseCarroll Gardens.

4. Musa ukumboza isipho seHanukkah kwi-Krismasi yokufaka . Gwema ukufaka isipho seHanukkah kwiphepha leKrismesi; Iincwadi zinokuba yizilwanyana ezinobungozi kodwa ziza kugwetywa zizikhuselo zazo.

   Ukuba uthengela iphepha lokugquma, khetha iphethini yesizukulwana okanye i-splurge kwi-Hanukkah yokwakheka ngokukhethekileyo (nangona ingahlawuliswa kwaye xa uyayibhalisa kuya kuba ngaphantsi kwayo kunokuba ulindele.) Okanye, hamba uhlaza kwaye uphinde usebenzise icandelo leNew York Times okanye iphepha elimnyama lokugubungela kwi-batch yakho yokugqibela esuka kwi-cleaners-cleaners yakho.

   I-Ditto ikhadi lesipho: Thenga, sebenzisa okanye wenze ikhadi le-Hanukkah, okanye sebenzisa ikhadi le-peace-themed card kwi-charity efana ne-UNICEF, kodwa ngenxa yokungqinelana, ungabeki ikhadi leKrisimasi kwisipho sakho saseHanukkah. Okanye, yenza i-combo yeKhisimusi-iHanukkah isipho sokubonga kwiintsapho ezixubekileyo.

1. Ungabhalisi Umhlobo wakho kwi-JDate.com yeHanukkah . Ekugqibeleni, ukuba umhlobo wakho ongumYuda ungatshatanga, ungabhalisi naye kwi-JDate, nangona i-sangn ingoma yokuthengisa "njengendlela yanamuhla yokuba abantu abangamaYuda bafumane uthando." Ngoba? Ngenxa yokuba eso sipho sigcinwa kubaamaamaYuda.

Iholide ezimnandi!

Ehlelwe ngu-Alison Lowenstein