Buza uSuzanne: Ngaba umntwana angakwazi ukuwela ngaphaya komkhumbi?

Ngaba unombuzo malunga nokucwangcisa ikhefu leentsapho? Buza uSuzanne Rowan Kelleher, ingcali yentsapho yokuphumla kwi-About.com.

Umbuzo: Amakhwenkwe yam sele atyhila intsapho yethu eyongezelelweyo kwi-Disney Cruise kweli hlobo. Nangona mna nomyeni wam siyixabisa ububele babo, ndiya kuba nexhala kakhulu ngokuzisa umntwana wethu oneminyaka eli-17 ubudala okhuphukayo onqabileyo enqanaweni. Le nyana ihlala ikhuphuka ngaphandle kwesikhankqalazo sayo, iphakanyiswe phezulu, ifakwe kwinqwelo yefenitshala.

Ndivile malunga nabantu abadala bewela ngaphantsi kwaye ndiyesaba ukuba naye, naye. Ngaba ndimele ndikhathazeke? - Sondra C. waseBhetsda, MD

USuzanne uthi: Makhe siqale ngetekisi lokwenene. Ngoxa abantu abadala beyaziwa ngokuwa kweenqanawa zeenqanawa, kwaye ihlala ibali indaba enkulu xa kwenzeka, yinto enqabileyo kakhulu. Kwaye kungenxa yokuba kunene, kunzima ukuwela ngaphaya ngaphandle kokukwenza ngokuzithandela okanye ukungazixeli.

Iinqwelo zokulinda kwiinqanawa ezininzi zokuhamba ngeenqwelo ezincinane ziyi-intshi ezingama-intshi ezingama-42, ezenza kube ngumngeni kunoma yimuphi umkhwela okhulayo. Kwiinqanawa ze-Disney, ngaphantsi komzila ophezulu umgangatho wendlela yokwenza ucingo lwe-fence ehlanganiswe ngepeksi ye-plexiglass ebonakalayo, ngoko akukho nto yabantwana abancinci ukunyuka ukuya phezulu ukuze bancike ngaphezu koololiwe. Oku kuyinyaniso ngomzila wokuloba kwinqanawa yoluntu kunye ne-balcony yomzila wee-staterooms ngeeranda. (Isithomboniso sibonisa unyana wam oneminyaka emi-5 ejongene nemibono yasekuseni evela kwi-verandah yethu kwi- Disney Wonder .)

Ukuba i-stateroom yakho inesiranda, umnyango kwi-balconi ngumnyango osindayo okhulayo kunye nentsimbi ecaleni. Ingxowa iya kuba yinto engafanelekanga kumntwana wakho. Ukuba umnyango ushiywe uvuliwe, umcango womnyango uphinde ukhuphe umntwana kwaye kulukhuni ukusebenza.

Ingozi eyingozi enkulu kukuba i-verandah i-balconi inefenitshala-ngokuqhelekileyo itafile ephantsi kunye neenhlalo ezimbini-apho umntwana omncinci, onokuthi, axhomeke ecaleni lokuhlambalaza nokunyuka.

Kakade, akufanele ushiye umntwana ongekho phantsi kwipharkoni. Unokucela ukuba umphathi wakho asuse impahla ye-verandah njengendlela yokuqapha.

Ukuba ukhathazekile kakhulu, isisombululo esilula kukuba ukhethe i-stateroom yangaphandle ngaphandle kwe-veranda okanye enye ye- staterooms yangaphakathi ne-emerald porthole, ekunika iimbono zangempela zento eyenzeka ngaphandle kwekhefu.

Ngaphantsi: Akukho mntu makayeke umntwana omncinci yedwa kwibhankini okanye ejikeleza umkhombe ongekho phantsi, kodwa andiyikuvumela ukuba ukwesaba komntwana wakho kuqhekeke ngenxa yokuma kwindlela enokwenkqantosa enokwenene kwintsapho- umgca wokuhamba ngeendlela ezikhokeleyo. Ndiqinisekile ukuba uya kuba nexesha elihle.

Ukukhangela iingcebiso zeholide zentsapho? Nantsi indlela yokubuza uSuzanne umbuzo wakho.

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