Indlela Yokutshintshwa Kwokutsha Umntu Emuva kwiLizwe eliPhezulu

Xa usenxanela ukutsha

Umlilo weNqanawa yoMntu wenziwa ngethuba leveki yokugqibela ka-Agasti kulo nyaka (njengoko kwenza njalo ngonyaka). Kwakugcwele izixhobo zobugcisa obumangalisayo, umculo omnandi, abantu abalungileyo, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo kwakukho indalo efana nengqondo. Akumangalisi ukuba kunzima ukushiya indawo enjalo emva.

Ukuxinezeleka kwePost-Playa yinto yinyani, kwaye kuyaqheleke ukuba ihlupheke kuyo xa ibuyela "kwihlabathi elingagqibekanga" emva kweveki elimangalisayo kwiSixeko soMnyama saseMnyama.

Emva kokuba ndiqale ukutshisa iminyaka emithathu edlulileyo, ndayiphatha kakuhle. Ndandiziva ngathi ndandizibonele kwaye ndadibana nabantu abakhulu ngokwenene. Unyaka wesibini, ngesizathu esithile, rhoqo xa ndibona nantoni na yokutshisa abantu, ndandifuna ukukhala (kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ndenza). Andikwazanga ukuyiphatha ngaphandle kokuba ndiphazamiseke ngokomzwelo. Lo nyaka emva kokutshatyalaliswa kwam sesithathu, ndilapha kwindawo ephakathi kwezi zimbini.

Ngoko zithini na amanyathelo abo bethu abane-post-Burning Man blues abangathatha ukuze balwe nomva wokulahleka "ekhaya"? Nazi iziphakamiso ezi-5 zokutshintshela emuva kwilizwe elingagqibekanga:

Yazi ukuba Unomlilo Omkhulu

Ingxenye yesizathu sokuba uziva ungezantsi kakhulu mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba wawuthandana nokutshisa kwakho kangangokuthi unzima ukujamelana nento yokuba iphelile. Mhlawumbi wadibana nabantu abamangalisayo waza wabona izinto ezimangalisayo ezibonakala zingekho kweli hlabathi. Ngexesha elifanayo, mhlawumbi uvakalelwa kukuba ulahlekelwe kakhulu kwaye unqwenela ukuba unokufumana ithuba lokufumana konke.

Ndivame ukufumana iimvakalelo ezinzulu zeFOMO (ukwesaba ukulahleka) ngexesha lemininzi imithendeleko, kodwa uBurning Man ungowona mbi kakhulu. Kukho konke ukuqhubeka kuyo yonke indawo, lonke ixesha, ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba ndive ngathi ndibonayo kwaye ndenze konke.

Indlela yodwa yokulwa nale mvakalelo kukuvuma ukuba wenze okokufunayo kwaye kufuneka uyenze ngexesha ngalinye.

Oko kuthetha ukuba uye wafumana umthendeleko ngokuzeleyo kuwe, ngokwakho. Ngokwemvelo kunye nomoya womntu ovuthayo, emva koko konke.

Zikhathalele

Ukuba unako ukulawula ukuthatha ixesha elide lomsebenzi ukufumana ubuthongo, yenza njalo. Ukuba ungum-yogi, yenza enye yoga. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yeyiphi isimiso sakho esiqhelekileyo, zama ukuphazamisa ukusetyenziswa okanye ezinye izinto zokunciphisa i-endorphin kuwo.

Nantoni na oyenzayo, musa ukuqhubeka neqela. Umzimba wakho neengqondo zifuna ukuphumla. Hlonipha umzimba wakho, thabatha isalafu esilula, kwaye udle yonke imifuno emitsha ongeyifumani ngexesha. Jabulela ubuninzi behlabathi elingagqibekanga.

Fumana i-Community Burner

Kukho iindawo zokushisa ngokumalunga nesixeko esikhulu kwihlabathi. Khangela i-Google kunye / okanye amaqela e-Facebook ukuze ubone oko kunokufumaneka kufuphi nawe.

Ukudibanisa nabantu abanjengengqondo yindlela enhle yokugcina iimvakalelo ezilungileyo zokushisa kwakho ziphila.

Yiya kwiNgqungquthela yokuThatyalaliswa

Izixeko ezininzi ezininzi, ezifana neLos Angeles, iSan Francisco, eLondon, kunye nezinye ezininzi zilandela iziganeko ezitshisayo emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa emva kokuba iBurn iphela. Ezi zibizwa ngokuba yiCompression and website yeBurning Man iqulunqe uludwe lwezinto eziqhubekayo ezenzeka emhlabeni jikelele.

Kukho imikhosi efana neAfrikaBurn, Akukho ndawo, kunye neFusion Festival.

Hlanganisa izinto ze-Playa kwiBomi bemihla ngemihla

Yintoni oyenandiphayo kumntu ovuthayo? Ngaba yayingumculo? Mamela umculo omnye owawuthandayo, kwaye uye kwiindawo ezininzi zokubonisa. Ngaba uyayithanda into yokomoya? Yenza ixesha kulo ubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla. Ngaba uthanda udibaniso lobuqu? Zifunde ngakumbi, ngokukodwa ngaphakathi kwintlalo echazwe ngasentla.

Uninzi lwazo zonke, xabisa kwaye uvume ixesha elimangalisayo onalo, kwaye ugijime ngokutsha ngokutsha!