Ukhethe ityelelo kwaye ukulungele ukubhuka uhambo lwakho. Kukho ingxaki enye - akukho mntu uhamba naye. Ngaba ufanele ulahle iphupha lakho uze uhlale ekhaya, okanye ufanele uhambe ngeyodwa ?
Ukuhamba kunye neqela lokukhenketha lingaba yindlela enkulu yokunwabela i-solo adventure, yenza abahlobo kunye nokulungisa iingxaki zokuphepha. Kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeekhenketho, ngoko uya kufuna ukuqwalasela zonke iinketho zakho ngaphambi kokuba uhambe uhambo lwakho.
Nazi ezinye izicwangciso zokuhamba ngeendwendwe kunye neqela lokutyelela.
Qinisekisa ukuba Ufuna ukuhlawula isongezelelo esisodwa okanye Fumana umntu ohlala naye
Abahambi beSolo badla ukuba bahlawule umrhumo omnye xa behamba neqela lokutyelela. Amahotele, iinqwelo zokuhamba kunye nabaqhubi bee-oot-base basebenzi bomntu ngamnye kwiindawo eziphindwe kabini. Ukuncedisa omnye kubhawula ababoneleli ngeendlela zokungabikho kwalowo mhlali wesibili. Oku kuthetha ukuba abahamba ngee-solo bahlawula ngaphezulu.
Abanye abatyeleli beehenkile banceda abo bahamba ngeehambo ngabanye basindisa imali ngokubanika inkonzo enxulumene nabo. Abahambi beSolo abanomdla wokufumana abo bahlala nabo bahambelana nomnye umhambi wedwa wesini esinye ukuze abo bobabini banakho ukuhlawula umgangatho ophantsi ohlala kabini.
Uya kufuneka uqikelele ukuba kungcono ukugcina imali ngokulala kunye nomfokazi okanye ukuhlawula ngaphezulu ukuze ube negumbi kuwe. Abatyeleli abaya kukhwaza okanye abangeniswayo bangathanda ukuyigcina kunye nokuhlawula enye inkxaso ukuze babe nekamelo kubo, kodwa abantu abaninzi banqwenela ukusebenzisa iinkonzo ezihambelana nomntu kwaye benza njalo ngempumelelo enkulu.
Khetha Uhambo Olufanelekileyo
Ukuba ufuna ukudibana nabantu abatsha, ungabhaliselwanga kwintyatyambo yothando. Kunoko, khangela iindlela zokuhamba ezibandakanya ukutyelela kwizikhumbuzo ezidumileyo kunye neemyuziyamu kodwa namava adibanisa abahambi kwiinkcubeko zendawo. Kulula ukuqhelana nabanye abantu kwiqela lakho lokutyelela ngelixa uthabatha udidi lobugcisa okanye ukupheka, uthatha uhlobo lokuhamba okanye ukhangele uhlobo oluthile lweeshizi lendawo.
Njengoko uhlaziya ihotele, jonga ngokucophelela kwinqanaba lomsebenzi wendlela nganye ukwenzela ukuba ukhethe ityelelo engayi kukugqoka.
Ngaphezu kwakho konke, khetha uhambo oluthatha kwiindawo ozifunayo ukutyelela. Intshiseko yakho iya kubonisa kwaye iya kubakhuthaza abanye abantu kwiqela lakho lokutyelela ukuba bafune ukukwazi kangcono.
Funda Uhambo lwakho
Ngaphambi kokuba uhambo lwakho luqale, jonga kakuhle uhambo lwakho. Ngexesha lohambo olukhokelwayo kunye nokutya kweqela, awudingi ukukhathazeka ngobudlelane. "Kwakho" ukutya kunye nexesha lokukhulula liya kubonisa umngeni omkhulu. Yilungele ukuhlolisisa ngokwakho, kwaye wamukele ithuba lokubona nokwenza oko kukubhenela ngaphandle kokuba ukhathazeke ngokukhetha komnye umntu.
Lindela Ubuhlobo
Abanye abathathi-nxaxheba bathetha ukudibana nabantu abatsha . Esi sizathu sezigqibo zabo zokuhamba neqela lokutyekela endaweni yokuhamba yedwa. Yiya kweli lihambo lokuhamba elindele ukuba wenze abahlobo abatsha, kwaye mhlawumbi uya.
Finyelela ngeSmile
Abanye abahamba ngeSolo maxa wambi basabisa abanye abahambi kuba kungekhona wonke umntu ozimisele ukuhamba yodwa. Unokuva iingcamango ezinje, "Unesibindi ukuhamba wedwa," okanye "Andiyi kuyenza into oyenzayo." Sebenzisa ezi nkcazo njengabaqalayo bencoko.
Ukuthetha into ethi "Ndicinga ukuba kuya kuba nzima, kodwa eli qela likhulu! Kutheni ukhethe le ndwendwe?" unokuguqula izimvo kwiingxoxo zokuhamba.
Ukuba ufuna abantu abakwiqela lakho lokutyelela ukuthetha nawe, yiba ngumntu onobuhlobo obumnandi, banika isaziso kuwo wonke umntu kwiqela lakho kwaye ulalele iindwendwe zakho zokuhamba. Ungesabi ukuqala incoko. Gwema izihloko eziphikisanayo. "Ngaba ubuye utyelele [[umqhubi wakho]?" yindlela efanelekileyo yokuqala. Ngexesha lokudla, cela abanye abahambahamba nabo, "Ngaba ucinga ukuba ndidibana nawe isidlo sakusihlwa?" Baya kuvuyisa ukuba ujoyine nabo.
Cwangcisa ukuchitha abanye (ezivuyisayo) ixesha elilodwa
Enye yezinto ezihamba phambili zokuhamba kwimizimba kukuba akudingeki uchithe ixesha kunye nabanye abantu ngaphandle kokuba ufuna. Ukuba unomdla wokuba ujikeleze nabanye abantu ngexesha lonke, ungabhalisela ityelelo enika ukulingana kwabalingani.
Ukuba, endaweni yoko, uthanda ukuhlala wedwa ngoku, unokuhlawula umrhumo omnye (okanye, ungcono kangako, fumana ityelelo engahlawulanga enye) kwaye ujonge ixesha elithile elithulileyo ekupheleni kosuku ngalunye.
Ngexesha lokutyelela, unokufumana uzitya wedwa okanye uzihlolisise ngokwakho ngexesha elilodwa. Ngamanye amaxesha amabini kunye namaqela amancinci abahlobo abahambahamba kunye abandakanyeka kakhulu ekwenzeni izicwangciso zabo zemihla ngemihla abayilibala ngayo nabani na omnye kwindlela yokutyelela, kwaye oko kulungile. Khetha indawo yokutyela, iimyuziyam okanye ukukhanga kwaye wenze ixesha elininzi apho.
Unokudlula ngamanye amalungu eqela lakho; ukuba uyenzayo, kwaye uthi u-hello, amathuba aphakamileyo ukuba aya kukumema ukuba ujoyine. Ukuba uhleli yedwa kwindawo yokutyela kwaye umntu ovela kwiqela lakho lokutyelela akubona wena, loo mntu unokucela ukuba akujoyine.
Ukuhlolisisa ngokwakho kunokuzonwabisa kakhulu. Hamba apho intliziyo yakho ithatha khona. Cela umgcini wakho umcebisi ngeencomo zokutya xa udla - kwaye uzame enye. Fumana i-ofisi yeenkcukacha zezokhenketho uze ubuze apho ungayifumana imbonakalo engcono okanye umculo omhle wendawo. Intloko kwipaki yendawo kwaye abantu bajonge, okanye bahambe ngendlela kwaye banandipha imithi neentyatyambo. Buyela kunye neqela lakho, unokwabelana ngamava akho kunye nabahlobo bakho bekhenketho kwaye ubuze indlela abachitha ngayo imini yabo.