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Uninzi lwabemi bemihlaba yesizwe samaMalayina, nangona kungafani namazwe angamakhelwane afana nelaseMalaysia ne-Indonesia, impembelelo yamaSilamsi ayinakuphela.
'Intetho encinci' yinto ebalulekileyo yokuseka ubudlelwane bezoqoqosho kunye namaPhilippines. Uya kufumana ukuba banokuba ngabaxubushelwano abanomdla.
Lindela ukuba ubuze imibuzo yakho malunga nemeko yakho yomtshato, ingeniso, inkolo kunye nezinye izifundo ezibuhlungu. Ukuba awunqweneli ukuphendula, ecaleni kwinqanaba le mibuzo njengomnxeba ngokusemandleni.
Ukuthungca umntu, okanye ukuwagxeka phambi kwabanye, kunokubangela ukuba "balahlekelwe ubuso" okanye ukulahleka kwedumela kwaye oku kunemiphumo emibi kule nkcubeko.
Ukugcina ubudlelwane obuhle kubalulekile ePhilippines. Gcina izimvo zakho ezintle kangangoko kunokwenzeka, kuba ukungabi nantoni kungabangela ukuba "ukulahleka kobuso",
Kungcono ukuba ungabi ngqo xa uxhulumana nabantu basePhilippines. Ngokuqhelekileyo baya kuthobela ngakumbi indlela engafanelekanga.
IsiNgesi lolwimi lwezinto ezininzi zezoshishino kwaye phantse onke amabhunga karhulumente ePhilippines.
Abahamba ngezoshishino kulindeleke ukuba babe ngexesha lokuba bonke abaqeshwa, kwaye nangona amaPhilippines angenakuze afike ngokuthe ngqo ngexesha, mhlawumbi awuyi kukulinda ixesha elide.
Xa udibana nomthengi omtsha, iileta zokusungulwa ezivela kubahlobo kunye nabahlobo bezoshishino banokukunceda ekuvuleni iingcango.
Nangona kukho ukungalingani kwezentlalo kwiiPhilippines, iiPhilippines zikholelwa ukuba wonke umntu kufuneka aphathwe ngenhlonipho. Bakulindeleke ukuba baziphathe ngokuthozama nangomusa, ngakumbi ekusebenzelaneni kwabo namahlwempu okanye abanenhlanhla.
Amashishini afanele alindele ukumbambisa izandla ngokungqongqo kunye namanye amadoda asePhilippines kokubhengezwa kunye neentlanganiso ezalandelayo, nangona kunjalo, kukulungele ukulinda umfazi wasePhilippines ukuba anike isandla sakhe kuqala.
Vala abahlobo basetyhini banokubingelelana ngokukhukhuza nokubanga. Ngokufanayo, abazalwana abasondeleyo banokuthintana ngokusondelene, njengokubamba izandla okanye ukuhamba ngengalo engxenyeni lomhlobo.
Abanye abantu basePhilippines bangabingelela ngokubambisana kweso, bephakamisa kwaye banciphise iinyawo zabo. Xa umntu ephakamisa iilebe zakhe kuwe, ngokuqhelekileyo yindlela yokubonisa ukuba uye waqondwa.
Ukuphakamisa ilizwi lakho akuvunyelwanga kwintlalo yaseFilippines. Kubalulekile ukugcina ithoni ephantsi, elawulwayo yezwi ngamaxesha onke.
Musa ukucinga ukuba ukumomotheka kukubonisa ukuzonwabisa okanye ukuvunywa. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukumomotheka kusetyenziswa ukutyhahla intloni, ukwethuka, kunye nezinye iimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo.
Yintoni ebalulekileyo ukuba ukwazi ngeNkqubo yokwenza iNqumo?
- Ukuze ufikelele kwisigqibo-mthetho, kuya kufuneka udibane kunye nabasemagunyeni kuqala kwaye uzivumelanise nomgaqo-shishini kumashishini ahlukeneyo entlangano.
- Ukuvelisa "iziphumo ezikhawulezileyo" akuyona inxalenye eqinileyo yenkcubeko yaseFilippines. Ngenxa yoko, kuya kufuneka ulungelelanise okulindelekileyo malunga nexesha lokugqibela kunye nokwenza izigqibo xa usebenza nabo.
Naziphi na iingcebiso kubafazi?
Abasetyhini bayamkelwa kwiibondari zoshishino, nangona kunjalo, kufuneka baphephe ukusebenzisana ngendlela yokuphatha kunye nabalingani babo besilisa.
Abaphathi bamabhinqa kulindeleke ukuba babe neempembelelo kakhulu kwaye baqinisekise igunya labo kwizakhono, ngokuzimela.
Nawuphi na umcebisi ngokuthinta?
Ngenxa yeminyaka yaseMelika yaseMelika ePhilippines, imiqondiso yesininzi kunye neendlela zokunxibelelana ziyabonwa kwaye ziqondwa.
Ukutshintshela umntu okanye into enokuthi ibonakale njengesenzo sokuthuka. Iiphilippines ngokuqhelekileyo zikhomba izinto ngokusebenzisa isandla esivulekile. Ukuze banike izikhombisi-ndlela, bangasebenzisa i-glance ngendoda encinci, okanye bathengise umlomo wabo ukubonisa indlela.
Ukubamba umntu, ubambe isandla sakho, isundu esezantsi, wenze isilingi sokutshiza ngeminwe. Ukutshintsha umntu onentendelezo kunye nokugubha ngomunwe omnye kunokutolika njengento yokuthuka.
Ukubonisa 'emibini' ngeminwe yenziwa ngokubamba umgca kunye nomnwe omncinci, kungekhona umtsalane kunye nomnwe ophakathi. Isalathiso asisetyenziswanga ukubala iinani kwiiPhilippines.
Musa ukubeka izandla zakho ezinqeni zakho xa uthetha. Lo mqondiso ungachazwa ngokungqiniswanga njengomngeni kumnye umntu.
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