Uhambo loshishino luvame ukubonisa abahamba ngezoshishino ngendlela elincinane ngayo ihlabathi, ingakumbi xa batyelela indawo ekude kwintlanganiso yezoshishino, ezifana neMzantsi Afrika. UMzantsi Afrika yindawo emangalisayo yokutyelela ieholide okanye ikhefu (yenza ixesha lokuzama elinye leendawo zokungena kwi-Afrika enkulu okanye uhambo lweentsuku ezilishumi eMzantsi Afrika !), Kodwa ngokuya kuba yindawo ekuya kubahambi bezoshishino.
Ngelixa ubuninzi bezinto ezisisiseko zokuqhuba ishishini kwindlela yokushishino zifana, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ziphi na, zininzi ezinye iinkcukacha ezincinci (ezincinci kakhulu) kunye nezithethe zenkcubeko ezingenza umda omkhulu xa kuziwa ekuvaleni ukujongana. UMzantsi Afrika ngumzekelo omhle wokuba ukuqonda ukungafani kwenkcubeko kumhambi wezoshishino kungenza umehluko phakathi kokutywinwa kwento kunye nokuvuthela i-deal. Ngokomzekelo, ngelixa eMzantsi Afrika, musa ukukhomba xa uthetha okanye uthetha ngezandla zakho kwiipokotshi zakho. Bobabini bajongwa njengento engcolileyo. Kodwa lungele ulungele ukuphindaphinda kunye nokubamba ngesandla, njengoko bobabini baqhelekileyo eMzantsi Afrika.
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Iingcebiso kubatyeleli bezeShishini ukuya eNingizimu Afrika
- Xa usenza ishishini eMzantsi Afrika , qhubeka ukhumbule ukuba isiNgesi, amaAfrican, kunye nabantu abamnyama baseAfrika bonke baneendlela ezahlukeneyo zokubingelelana, kwaye ngoxa babumbene njengabantu baseMzantsi Afrika, ngamnye uhlala ebonakalisa ubuntu babo.
- UMzantsi Afrika yiziko loshishino lweAfrika kwaye ngumvelisi oyintloko weemigodi ezibandakanya idayim, igolide, isilivere kunye nobhedu.
- Naliphi na ukungazi malunga nommandla wezopolitiko wasekhaya waseMzantsi Afrika okanye wengingqi, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kungafaneleka ukuba wenze ishishini kweli lizwe.
- Ngaphandle kobuhlanga, uMzantsi Afrika uye wavela njengenye yeentlanga ezininzi zeenkcubeko, ezakhiwa yiBrithani, isiBhulu, isiMalay , isiNdiya, isiXhosa, isiXhosa kunye nezinye izizwe ezimnyama.
- UMzantsi Afrika akayinto "yokutyhafaza", kodwa kunokuba uluntu luqulunqwe ngabantu abahlukeneyo kunye nemidla ehlala ehlukeneyo kodwa ingqongqo ekufuneni umanyano omtsha ofuna ukukhokelela nokulungisa ilizwe.
- Abantu abathetha isiNgesi baseMzantsi Afrika bavame ukugcinwa, baziqhenywe ngelifa labo lemveli, babe nemilinganiselo enhle, intetho enhle, incoko kwaye bayiphephe ukungqubuzana okungadingekile. AmaAfrikan, njengabo okhokho babo baseDatshi, baqonde ngqo kwaye baye banomdla wokuba "bathethe oko."
- Uninzi lwabantu baseMzantsi Afrika banemibini kwaye bathetha isiNgesi nesiBhulu (semvelaphi yaseDutch).
- Abanye abantu baseMzantsi Afrika bathetha isiNgesi ngokugqithiseleyo, kunye nesigqi esheshayo. Kubalulekile ukuba uhlawule ngokungakumbi kuba ukucela abantu ukuba baphinde baphinde bahlaziye.
- Izivakalisi zivame ukulungiswa ngokulandelelana. Abantu baseMzantsi Afrika baxabisa imfundo efanelekileyo, ngoko i-degree ephakamileyo evela kwiYunivesithi eyaziwayo inokuthi ibhekiswe kwisingeniso.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu baseMzantsi Afrika balandela indlela yaseBrithani yokuziphatha, ukutshintshisana ngokusemthethweni kwezandla kunye nokuthengisana kwamakhadi.
- Gcina ulinde ukuba uhlale phantsi. Xa uhleli, lindele ukucelwa amaxesha ambalwa ukuba ufuna ikhofi okanye itiye. Ingcamango enhle yokwamkela, njengoko oku kunika ukuphuka kwindlela yokuziphatha kwaye kuvumela ukuqala kweminye yokuqala "intetho encinci."
- Umdla oqhelekileyo kwimidlalo uhamba ngendlela ende ekuqiniseni ulwalamano oluthile lolwalamano lwezoshishino. Ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza ukuba ungathanda ukubona umdlalo wekhilikithi okanye umdlalo wombhoxo unokukufumana isimemo kwenye!
- Ngokwemvelo, abantu baseMzantsi Afrika ngabantu abanobubele, abanobubele, abaphumayo, kwaye iingxoxo zifumana umntu emva kwexesha elifutshane. Baya kuthatha inzala yokwenene kwindlela yobomi kwilizwe lakho kunye nento ocinga ngayo ngoMzantsi Afrika.
- Ukuba kukho ixesha elide lokuthula phakathi kwendibano, kuyimpawu yokuba imeko ibe yinto engalunganga okanye kukho enye into engalunganga.
- Ngokwahlukileyo, iingxoxo zoshishino ziqhutyelwa ngendlela efanelekileyo kunye namazwi athule. Izwi eliphakanyisiweyo liya kutsholwa njengento yokuthuka. Kwakhona, ukwandisa umthamo wakho ubeka umngcipheko wokukufaka uphawu lokuba ngumntu ongezinye iintlanga ochaphazelekayo ochaphazelekayo malunga "nomgca ophantsi" kunecala lomntu wobudlelwane bezoshishino.
- Abantu baseMzantsi Afrika abashishini abachukumiswanga ngokulula ngama-slides. Umhlangano wokuqala ngowokuseka isixokelelwano somntu kunye nokuthatha isigqibo sokuba ungumntu onokumthemba. Kuya kuba yimpazamo ukulindela naziphi na izigqibo ezizenzekelayo okanye usebenze ude ulwalamano luqulunqwe kakuhle.
- Gcina ingxelo yakho mfutshane, ukuya kwinqanaba, kwaye uzaliswe iingcamango ezithile eziphathelele kwiimeko ezizodwa zokwenza ishishini eMzantsi Afrika. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukusetyenziswa kunye nokuxhaswa kwemali kubambiswano kubaluleke kakhulu kubemi boMzantsi Afrika ngaphandle kweyona mveliso okanye inkonzo ozama ukuyithengisa.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu baseMzantsi Afrika abayithandi ukuvuma ukuba bayayazi impendulo. Uninzi lo tyekelo luhambisana nenkcubeko yokungenisa izihambi kunye nomnqweno wokungadikibala. Musa ukukhawuleza ukuphendula ngokukhawuleza, kunye nolwazi oluchanekileyo luya kunikezelwa kuwe kwikamva elikufutshane.
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Ukugcina ukudibanisa kakuhle kwamehlo kubalulekile
Ukuthetha ngezemidlalo kuyindlela efanelekileyo yokwenza ishishini. Yenza umgudu wokufunda ngokufezekiswa kwelizwe kwi-golf, ibhola yombhoxo kunye nekhilikithi
Isipho esincinci kodwa esicatshangelwayo kubahlobo bakho bezoshishino okanye iintsapho zabo ziya kukuxabisa kakhulu. Izipho ezenziwe ngabanye zizona zilungileyo
Ukuthetha ngelizwe lakho lekhaya, kunye nomdla wakho eMzantsi Afrika - yindawo ehlukeneyo kunye nenhle, inkcubeko eneenkcubeko kunye nezilwanyana zasendle
Imigaqo-nkqubo yezobuhlanga neyentlalontle ivulekile ukuxoxa, kodwa qiniseka ukuba uyazi kakuhle ngesihloko kwaye ungafaki izimvo zakho.
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Ukuthetha ngezandla zakho kwiipokethi zakho kuthathwa njengento engcolileyo
Xa sidlula emnyango, kungokwesiko ukuba amadoda aseAfrika ahambe phambili kubafazi
Musa ukuqalisa okanye ukuthatha inxaxheba kwiingxoxo zobundlobongela okanye zesondo kufuneka ukuba isihloko sivela
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Inkqubo yokwenza iNqumo kunye neNtetho
- Isantya seshishini sihamba ngokukhawuleza kwaye sikhululekile xa kufikelelwe kwingxoxo kunye nenkqubo yokwenza izigqibo. Ukuba nobudlova ngaphezu kwexesha elikude kuya kuba nzima. Gwema "ukuthengiswa kanzima" kuba oko kunokuthi kubonwe njengobunzima.
- Kwiingxoxo kunye nokwenza izigqibo, abantu baseMzantsi Afrika bazama ukwakha imvumelwano kwaye bakhetha ukubona onke amanqaku athola into. Ngokona nxalenye, balawulwa ngumdlalo wokudlala kakuhle, kwaye akunqabile ukuba "baqhekeze" kwixabiso okanye ukugqithisa iinkcukacha.
Iingcebiso kubasetyhini
Amashishini amashishini atholakala ngokufanelekileyo eMzantsi Afrika.
Iingcebiso kwiMpawu
Abantu baseMzantsi Afrika bavame ukusebenzisa ulwimi lomzimba ekuboniseni. Uza kuba nobuninzi bokubambisana kunye nokunye ukubuyisela. Ngaba nabahlobo kunye nabahlobo abasondeleyo, ukubamba isandla ngumqondiso wobungani.