Yintoni ongayithandi ngeSpeyin? Imozulu? Abantu? Ukutya? I zakhiwo? Iyamangalisa. Yingakho kuyamangalisa xa ndifumana ithuba lokuhamba apho kwishishini. Ukuba unako ukutyelela iSpeyin kwi shishini, qiniseka ukuba uyayixabisa - kodwa kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuba uyayiqonda inkcubeko! Awufuni ukuphazamisa intsebenziswano yezoshishino ngokuthetha okanye ukwenza into engafanelekanga.
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Ziziphi iingcebiso onokubahamba ngezoshishino eziya eSpeyin?
- Xa usenza ishishini eSpain, khumbula ukuba amashishini amaninzi avaliwe ukususela ngo-1: 00 ntambama ukuya ku-4: 00 ntambama imihla ngemihla, kuba abantu bahlala bebuyela ekhaya ukuze bafumane isidlo sabo esikhulu kunye nosapho lwabo baze bathabathe intambama
- Nangona ufanele ugcine ixesha, ungakhathazeki ukuba uhlala ulinde kuyo yonke imizuzu engama-15 ukuya kwi-30. Ukongezelela, amaqela kunye neminye imicimbi yentlalontle ayifuni ukuqala ngexesha labo elihleliweyo.
- Yiba neengxaki kwimimandla yeengingqi kuba ukwenza amazwana angachazwanga malunga nommandla waseSpeyin ovela kuyo kuthathwa njengento yokuhlambalaza (umzekelo, ukuphazamisa isiCatalonia ngesiBasque).
- Izethulo zokuqala zexesha kunye namaSpanish kufuneka zenziwe ngendlela esemthethweni. Ukwandisa isandla esifutshane kodwa ngokuqinileyo xa uhlala unxibelelwano lwamehlo.
- Kwinkampani yabahlobo, kuyaqhelekile ukuba amadoda agxume okanye athabathe omnye nomnye ngasemva kwongezwa kwisandla sokubamba ngesandla.
- Nangona kunokubakho abafazi abangaphantsi kweSpanish kwizikhundla zolawulo, amabhinqa aseSpanish ayaphathwe ngokuhlonela, nje kuphela xa ugqoka kwaye uziphatha ngendlela efanelekileyo.
- Nangona abafazi besamkeleke ngokupheleleyo kwiindima zabo zoshishino, kubalulekile ukuba baqonde ukuba i-machismo ibaluleke kakhulu kubazalwana abathile baseSpeyin, ngoko bahlala becinga ukuba kuyimfuneko yokulawula imeko.
- AmaSpanish amanyene xa ekhuluma, kwaye angasibamba ingalo yakho okanye igxala ukuba wenze iphuzu. Musa ukufuduka, okanye kunokubangela ukuphulwa.
- Esinye isenzo esivamile saseSpanish sitshintshisa izandla phantsi ukuze ugxininise ingongoma.
- I-Spain yilizwe lonqulo kakhulu, abantu abaninzi baya kukhubeka xa bakuva uthabatha igama likaYehova ngeze, kwaye kukulungele ukungafungi ebusweni babanye.
- Inkcubeko yaseSpeyin yenkcubeko iphezulu kakhulu, kwaye i-boss kuphela, eyaziwa ngokuthi "el jefe" okanye "el padron," inegunya lokuthatha izigqibo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abaphantsi ba landela imiyalelo, balawula igunya, kwaye basombulula nayiphi na ingxaki ngaphambi kokuba baphume.
- Qaphela ukuba kuya kukhwankqiswa ukuba uchithe ixesha elide kunye nokuqwalasela umntu ongezantsi kunokuba wena. Kungcono ukuchitha ixesha kunye nabo baza kuthathwa njengolu "shishini".
- Yenza umzamo ukulungelelanisa iindlela zoshishino zaseSpeyin, kuba ibonisa intlonipho yakho kwenkcubeko kwaye ibonisa ukuba uyatshintsha.
- Ungalindeli ukuxoxa ngoshishino ekuqaleni kwintlanganiso. Abantu baseSpain bafuna ukukwazi nawe ngaphambi kokuqhubela phambili kwishishini, ngoko bengahlali kwaye uphendule nayiphi na imibuzo abanokuba nayo malunga nemvelaphi yakho. Kwiphepha le-flip, kungcono ukuba ungababuza imibuzo emininzi kwimibandela yokuqala yokuqala.
- Iimvakalelo zithembeke kakhulu kwiinkcubeko zaseSpain. Ngenxa yoko, kubalulekile ukuba usebenze ekwakheni ulwalamano oluhle kunye nabahlobo bakho baseSpain.
- Nangona amaSpanish ayamkela ulwazi olutsha kunye neengcamango, unokufumanisa ukuba abaguquli iingqondo zabo lula. Yilungiselele ukuxoxisana kunye nokunciphisa.
- Musa ukukhathazeka xa uphazamiseka ngelixa uthetha, kwaye ungayithathi njengento yokuthuka. Iziphazamiso zaseSpain zidla ngokubonisa ukuba lunomdla kwaye unomdla kwiingxoxo.
- Njengamazwe amaninzi aseAsia, kufuneka wenze konke onokukwazi ukukhusela wena kunye nabanye "ekulahlekelweni ubuso", ngoko ke uqaphele ukuba ugweme naluphi uhlobo lokugxekwa okanye ukuhlazeka.
- Abantu baseSpeyin baya kubakhokelela ukuba yonke into ihamba ngendlela efanelekileyo, nangona oku kungenjalo. Lo ngumlinganiselo "wokulondoloza ubuso" ukubonakala ubenekhono kunye nokulawula. Nika ingqwalasela esondeleyo ngexesha lokuthetha ukuze uqonde oko kwenzeka ngokwenene.
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- Ukuqhagamshelana kwamehlo kubaluleke kakhulu ukubonisa ukunyaniseka kwakho nokunyaniseka.
- Zonke iintlobo zemidlalo, kwaye ngokukodwa ibhola lebhola!
- I-Architecture, umculo, ubugcisa, inkcubeko kunye nantoni na ehlobene nelizwe okanye ubuhle bendawo.
- Ukuhamba, indawo oye watyelela kuyo, kunye nelizwe lakho.
- Okulungileyo, iwayini, kunye nokutya okanye iwayini yemimandla yaseSpeyin u tyelela.
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- Umqondiso waseNorth American "OK" (ukwenza isangqa somnwe wokuqala kunye nesithupha) uthathwa njengongcolileyo kwaye akufanele kusetyenziswe.
- Ukubiza umntu ngokukhawulela umnxeba wakho kuthathwa njengento engcolileyo. Endaweni yoko, vula isandla sakho kwaye ugubungele iminwe okanye isandla sakho sonke.
- Ukuqhaqhayisa iifom yezobugcisa ehlonishwayo apha. Ngenxa yoko, kuya kuba yinto enomdla ukuyeka ukungabikho naluphi na ukugxeka malunga nalo.
- Gwema ukubeka kakhulu ukugxininisa kumava akho olwazi kunye neempumelelo zoshishino ngexesha le ncoko.
- Kwiinkcubeko zaseSpeyin, umgangatho wobume bakho ngumlinganiselo ohloniphekileyo wenhlonipho, ngoko qaphela ukuba ufuna ukufunyanwa njani.
Yintoni ebalulekileyo ukwazi malunga nokuthatha isigqibo okanye inkqubo yokuxoxisana?
Ukwenza iinqunto kunye noxoxiswano eSpeyin kuya kuncitshiswa, kwaye amanqanaba ahlukeneyo olawulo lwentsebenziswano adibeneyo njengokuba izicwangciso zesiphakamiso zihlaziywa. Emva kokuxoxisana ngokuphumelelayo, ngezihlandlo ngamanye amaxesha iziphiwo zitshintshaniswa ukuphawula isihlandlo esonwabileyo.
Naziphi na iingcebiso kubafazi?
Ngamanye amaxesha amabhinqa ayamkela ngokukhawuleza, uze uthinte amahlama ngeli xesha ukhawuleza ukumanga umoya. Banokubulisa indoda yaseSpeyin engumhlobo osondelene kakhulu ngale ndlela.
Nawuphi na umcebisi ngokuthinta?
Uluhlu oluninzi lweentshukumo luhamba rhoqo incoko. Unganqikazi ukubuza ukuba unobunzima bokuqonda le miqondiso, ngokukodwa ukususela ekubeni iintsingiselo zivame ukuhluka ukusuka kummandla ukuya kummandla.