Isalathiso sinikezelwe ukufuzisela isithembiso sokuba umntu omnye wenza omnye onokholo oluhle.
Kwezinye iziganeko, isithembiso sokumisela siyimphambili kwindandatho yokubandakanya. Nangona oku kufuzisela isithembiso sokutshata, isithembiso sinokuthi sinokumelana nezinye iintlobo zesifungo. Bobabini abesilisa nabasetyhini banokunika kwaye banxibe isithembiso sokubamba.
Uthembisa izindonga ezinokuthetha
- Ndiya ku thembeka kuwe
- Ndiza kubuya kuwe
- Ndiza kugcina isithembiso esithile kuwe
- Ndiza kugcina imfihlo yakho
- Iimvakalelo zam ngawe zinzulu
- ndiyakuthanda
- Injongo yam kukuba kukutshata, kodwa andisakulungele ukubandakanya
- Ndiza kusindisa ubuntombi bam
- Sihlobo oluhle
- Ndiya kuba soloko kuwe
- Wena ungomnye kwaye uyena kuphela i-valentine
- Ndiyathembisa ukuba ndiyeke kwimpempe (ukugembula, ukusela, ukutshaya)
- Ndiyathembisa ukubuyisela le ndandi nge-(enkulu) idayimane enye ngokukhawuleza ukuba ndikwazi ukuyifumana
Ngaba Uthembisa Izindandatho kunye Nokuzibandakanya Neentambo Zomtshato Ziyabonakala?
Xa isithembiso sokungqinelana sinikezelwa njengesipho esengaphambi kokubandakanyeka, ngokuqhelekileyo sineentliziyo kwisinyithi esifanayo. Nangona kunjalo, nayiphi na ingcongolo ingabonisa isithembiso, nokuba neempawu ezincinci. Imibhangqwana ye-Irish extraction ingaba nokuxabisa ukunika nokufumana iindandatho zemveli eziqhelekileyo zikaCladdagh.
- Amanyathelo okubandakanya aqheleke ukuba akhangeleke kwaye afake idayimane okanye elinye ilitye elixabisekileyo.
- Amakhonkco omtshato aqhelekileyo amabhinki angabhalwa kwintsimbi exabisekileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha ahlanganiswe ngamatye amancinci.
- Zomibini iinkqubo zokubambisana kunye nemigangatho yomtshato zibiza kakhulu kunezondlo zesithembiso kwaye kufuneka zikhuselwe xa zihamba okanye zitshintshile endaweni engabiziyo uze ubuyele ekhaya.
Uninzi lwabantu lunxibe ingcongolo eminwe yesandla sabo sobunxele. Ukuba ukubandakanyeka kuqalisa, intsebenziswano ishintshintshi kwaye isithembiso sinokutshintshela kwesokunene.
Yaye ukuba isithembiso siphezulu ngokucacileyo asiyiyo intsimbi yokubambisana, kufuneka iguqulwe ngakwesokunene.
Ithembiso kufuneka iCacile
Xa unikezela isithembiso, kubalulekile ukunxibelelana nentsingiselo ethile oyinike yona. Ukuze ugweme ukudideka kwaye kamva ungonwabi, qiniseka ukuba ummkeli uyaziqonda oko kuthethwa ngabo bobabini. Usenokufuna ukunika indandatho nge-notecard echaza isithembiso osenzayo.
Ungayithenga phi enye?
Naluphi na isitolo sezinto zokugcoba kufuneka zigcinwe ngeendidi ezahlukeneyo ezinokumisela isithembiso sesandi. Ukuba uya kukhangela i-IRL yindandatho, ungavumeli umthengisi azame ukukukholisa ukuba uchithe ngaphezulu. Gcina ukhumbule ukuba olu hlobo lwezinto zokugcoba kufuneka luzithobe ngokwexabiso kunye nokubonakala. Kwakhona, qiniseka ukubuza malunga nenqubomgomo yokubuyisela xa izinto zingasebenzi. Kwaye ukuba awufuni ukujongana nabathengisi nonke, ungathenga isithembiso esivela kwi-Amazon. Qiniseka ukuba uyazi ubungakanani bendandatho ngaphambi kokubeka umyalelo.
Ukuba umjikelo ukhululekile ngokwaneleyo, umniki-mali unokukwazi ukuba namagama okanye ama-initials agqitywe okanye amagama ambalwa atshwankathela isithembiso. Yona ke ingaguquki, nangona kunjalo.
Kuthiwani Ukuba Bashintsha Ingqondo yabo?
Ukuthembisa iindandatho zexabiso eliphantsi akufuneki libuyiselwe, nangona ummkeli angenakufuna ukugcina ingcangca xa ekhupha iinkumbulo ezimbi.