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Ndifumene umbuzo omkhulu kumama wendawo ofuna ukufundisa unyana wakhe ezinye izifundo ezibalulekileyo ebomini.

Mholo. Ndinabantwana ababini intombi yam eneminyaka engama-21 ubudala kunye nendodana yam eneminyaka engama-6 kunye nesiqingatha ubudala. Umbuzo wam unayo nayiphi na imisebenzi yokuzithandela e-Phoenix yabantwana abancinci. Ngokucacileyo ayiyintombi yam kodwa ngenxa yokuba eselula kakhulu. Kodwa ndiziva ukuba unyana wam uneminyaka efanelekileyo ukuba aqaliswe emsebenzini wokuzithandela. Unemisebenzi yakhe embalwa ekhaya kunye nesikolo kwaye uyithatha ngokubalulekayo (uneminyaka emithandathu ubudala). Kodwa thina sihlala kwintsapho ephakathi nendawo kwaye nangona singenayo into eninzi yokunikela, okanye zonke imidlalo ezitsha kunye neemathoyizi ezontanga zabo, ndifuna abantwana bam baqonde ukuba sinentsikelelo eninzi. Yaye ukuba ngokuxabisa into esinayo kunye nokuzinikela ekuncedeni abo bahluphekileyo kunokukhokelela ekubeni nonwabe olungenakuthenga. Ndiyazi ukuba kubonakala kunzulu kakhulu kubantwana abancinci kodwa ndikholelwa ukuba akudingeki ukuba baqonde ukuba kutheni ngokukhawuleza kodwa ngokubanika loo mava kuya kubanceda ukuba bakuqonde konke kamva ebomini. Ndiyifunayo ngokuninzi njengoko ulwazi lwam luvumela inthanethi kwaye lufumene imibutho eninzi kubantwana ukuba bavolontile kwamanye amazwe kodwa akukho namnye apha ePhoenix. Ndikhangele nje iiyure ezimbalwa ngenyanga, mhlawumbi sonke sinokwenza into njengentsapho ukunceda abo bahluphekileyo.

Ndiyamangaliswa gqitha ukuba ufuna ukwabelana ngefilosofi yakho enomdla kunye nonyana wakho omncinane. Uvakala njengomntwana omncinane, kunye nokufunda imfesane kuqala, ngaphezu kokuba nomama onyamekelayo, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kumnceda abe ngumdala omhle. Zininzi iintlobo zamathuba eziza engqondweni.

Ewe, kukho iimeko ezibandakanya ukucoca ukusingqongileyo, ukutshala imithi kunye noko , kodwa ndifumana ingcinga yokuba kunokuba usebenze nabantu ngendlela ethile. Nazi ezintlanu iingcamango endizenzayo:

1. Kukho imibutho ejikeleze idolophu edla ukutya kwiindawo ezingenamakhaya okanye ezingenabuncwane, kwaye zihlala zifuna abancedisi. Ukuba awukwazi ukuvolontiya rhoqo, imfuno ihlala iphakamileyo ngeeholide .
2. Imibutho efana nomsebenzi wePhoenix Rescue Mission kwiiprogram zokubuyela esikolweni, njengokufaka izinto zokubeka isikhwama okanye ukuhlenga iimpahla zesikolo.
3. Ukuba unothutho, nayiphi na inhlangano eyenza abantu abadala, okanye ukutyelela iindlovu okanye izibhedlele okanye asebekhulile, mhlawumbi akayi kucinga ukuba unyana wakho uza kunye nawe ukutyelela. Kwiwebhusayithi yeHandsOn Greater Phoenix ungakhangela amathuba okuzithandela uze uhlaziye uphando kulabo baquka abantwana. Ikhefu ngalinye levolontiya liza kuchaza izithintelo malunga nobudala kunye nokuba ingaba umntu omdala makahambe kunye nomntwana.

1. Ukuba ubandakanyeka kwindawo yokunqula nayiphi na uhlobo, baya kuba nako ukunika ulwazi malunga neenkqubo apho unyana wakho angabandakanyeka ekuncedeni abanye.
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Ngenxa yokuba unyana wakho usemncinci, kuya kufuneka uhambe naye kungakhathaliseki ukuba ugqiba ntoni. Isisombululo onokuyifumana luncedo ngumdlalo wokuzithandela, apho ndibona amaninzi amaninzi. Sebenzisa i-Advanced Search feature ukuze ufune izinto ezilungileyo kubantwana. Njengoko sisondele ngeeholide, iintsapho ezinjengeyakho ezifuna ukwenza into enhle kwabanye zihlala zithandwa.