Buza i-NYC Dating Experts
Tamsen Fadal kunye noMat Titus , esiyintandokazi yaseNew York yesiqabane kunye neengcali zobudlelwane, phendula imibuzo yakho malunga nendlela yokufumana umntu okhethekileyo kwisixeko saseNew York, ethandana nabantu abangabikho, ukubuyela kwisibini sokuthandana sase-NYC emva kwe-hiatus, kunye nokuziphatha komhla.
Ndingafumanaphi Intombazana Enhle eNew York?
Umfana ongatshatanga eSoho ubhala: Ndiyindoda eneminyaka engama-24 ubudala ehlala eNew York malunga neminyaka emine.
Ndizama ukuhlangabezana nentombazana lonke ixesha, kodwa abashisayo bonke babonakala benamantombazana. Ukunyaniseka, ndididekile kukuba ndiza kuphuma eNew York ukuya eCalifornia ngenxa yale ngxaki. Ininzi yamantombazana endiyifumanayo kwimivalo ayigxile ngokupheleleyo. Ndathutha apha ukusuka eMzantsi ukucinga ukuba ngokwenene ndiza kuhlangabeza amaninzi amanqamlekazi aseNew York, kodwa ndivakalelwa kukuba ndingekho ezweni lomntu. Ndingenza ntoni?
Tamsen kunye noMat uthi: Nceda ungahambi !! Kule-LA, unokuthi ugijime kwizinto ezininzi ezingabonakaliyo ezifuna ithuba kwaye akukho nto. Yeka ukuya kwiimarike zenyama kunye nemivalo. Khangela amabhinqa kwiindawo ezingenakulinganiswa njenge-Whole Foods, okanye kwisitalato okanye ngabahlobo. Sukuncama!
Ukubuyela KwiNew York Game Dating Game
Iintloni e-Chelsea ziyabhala: Kowomntu ongekho ixesha elide, ukutshatana kunokusongela. Ukuthandana kwintlalo yanamhlanje kufana nemidlalo yokhuphiswano.
Ndiyichukumisa kumntu omaziyo kum, kodwa ndiyesaba ukuza kuye kuba andizange ndibe neminyaka emininzi (ndangaphandle kobudlelwane obude kunyaka ophelileyo). UMat uthi amabhinqa eNew York enza ezininzi iimpazamo zokuthandana kwaye ndiyesaba ukwenza into engafanelekanga. Iyiphi indlela engcono kakhulu yokuqalisa ngokukhawuleza kwaye usondele kwintsimbi yam?
UTamsen kunye noMat bathi: Kufuneka ube neengqondo ezifanelekileyo xa uza kusebenza kwaye uthathe imiba yentliziyo ezandleni zakho ukuze wenze uthando lube khona. Ngokusondela kumdla wokuthanda, unokwenza ingxelo. Yintoni eyenza umntu unomdla kwaye uyingqayizivele ukuziphatha kwabo, kungekhona ukujonga kwabo.
Ukuba uvulekile kwaye ukhuselekile ngokwaneleyo ukuhamba ukuya kumfokazi kwaye uzama ukwenza ubudlelwane bwenzeka ngaphandle kwomoya ococekileyo kukubeka kwiqela elikhethiweyo elincinci. Impendulo yakho inokuthandwa yinjongo kufuneka ibe yinto engenakwenzeka. Cinga ngako, njani ukuphendulwa komntu ongeyena mntu ongenakukuphela kwakho kukuchaphazela njani izinga lakho lokuzithemba? Impendulo: ayikwazi.
Kwakhona, ngokusondela kumfokazi kukubonisa ukuba luhlobo luni lwabantu ababenalo ngendlela abasabela ngayo endleleni yakho. Ukuba uvulekile, unomusa kwaye ukhuselekile, mhlawumbi ungumntu ofanele ixesha lakho. Ukuba uvalekile, ungathandabuzeki kwaye ungalondeki, ke ungacingi kabini ngokuhamba. Ngoko, hamba ukuya kumntu ozaziyo uze uphinde uzenzele ngokwakho ngokumxelela igama lakho kunye nalapho udibana nabo. Ngezantsi, hamba. Yintoni omele ulahlekelwe ngokwenene?
Ngaba Ndiyimagnethi yamadoda angafumanekiyo?
Itholakala kwi-Avenue yase-Amsterdam ibhala: Ndingumfazi oneminyaka engama-34 ubudala obonakala ekhangayo okanye atshaywe kumadoda angafuni ukutshata, abe nezingane, okanye abe nolunye ulwalamano oluxabisekileyo.
Amaninzi amaninzi, andikufumani oku kude kube mva kwaye siqhubeka sithandana kuba ndiyifumana loo mntu unomdla. Ndiyitshintsha njani iphethini yam? Andifanga ukutshata - ndifuna nje ukufumana "iqabane lam olwaphulo-mthetho" ukuzonwabisa ubomi kunye.
Tamsen kunye noMathe bathi: Indlela efanelekileyo yokudibana nabantu abalungileyo kukuba ijoliswe kwaye ihlaziywe ekufuneni kwakho. Ukuthandana kwe-intanethi kuya kukunika iinkqubo ezikhethiweyo ezichazwe kwinqanaba lokukuvumela ukuba uzikhumbule ezo zimpiliso zodwa kwaye ukhethe kwiziko leenkcukacha zabantu abafuna izinto ezifanayo ozifunayo.
Xa Uthanda i-iPhone yakhe ngakumbi
I-Miss Manners e-Midtown ibhala: Ndinombuzo kuwe malunga nesetyenziso sefowuni ngomhla. Ndandingumntu ongaboniyo kwaye ndandisoloko ndandingumntu. Imizuzu emithandathu ngomhla, iselfowuni yakhe ikhonkxa kwaye iyazithethelela ize ithathe umnxeba ngaphandle.
Ndilinde imizuzu engama-15-20 kwaye ke ndivuka ndihambe. Ingaba ucinga ukuba ndibuhlungu kakhulu kumfana? Njengoko ndandishiya, ndamxelela ukuba oku akuyi kusebenza kwaye wathi wayesefowuni kunye nomphathi wakhe. Yintoni oyenzayo kwimeko?
UTamsen kunye noMat bathi: Siyavuma ngokupheleleyo nawe. Xa uphantsi komhla, kufuneka ube ngu-100% okhoyo kumntu kwitafile. Akukho nto yokukhawulelana nentsapho yengxamiseko kufuneka ikuphazamise kumhla.
Iifowuni zeefowuni, ama-Blackberries kunye nee-iPhones kufuneka zicime kwaye zicwecwe. Oku kungumgca phambili wezinto ezinokugcinwa kuwe ukuba ubandakanyeka nomntu onje. Ukuba uya kukuvuthela ngomnxeba ngomhla wokuqala, awufuni ukwazi oko kuza kwenzeka xa eyeka ukuzama ukukugcizelela.
Funda ngakumbi iNew York City ukufumana isiluleko esivela kuMat and Tamsen okanye ukutyelela indawo yabo.