Fumana isondo kunye nothando kwiSixeko kunye neengcebiso ezivela kwiiNkcukacha zoBugcisa be-NYC
Ukuthandana kweso sixeko saseNew York kuhlale kuyintengiso. Awukwazi ukuba ubusuku obuthile buya kuba sisiqendu seSondo kunye nesiXeko , i -Odd Couple , okanye uMthetho noMyalelo . Ngaba bekungeke kube mnandi ukuba neengcebiso zengcali kwiSixeko saseNew York ekuthandeni ukuziphatha kunye nokufumana iingcebiso malunga nokungenzi nto?
Ngelishwa, ndiye ndiphuma kumdlalo wokuthandana iminyaka kwaye ndingazange ndilungele ukuqala ngawo. Ngoko ke ndacela iingcali zengxube-nxu yaseNew York, abadlali be-matchmakers kunye nabalobi uTamsen Fadal kunye noMat Titus ukuba babelane ngamanye amacebiso malunga nendlela yokufumana uthando (okanye ubuncinane ixesha elifanelekileyo) eNew York City.
Banika iingcamango zakhe ezikhethekileyo kwi-NYC yokudibana kunye nokubeka ezinye iingcebiso ezinkulu malunga nendlela yokuhlala kwisixeko saseNew York.
Ziziphi izinto ezinzima kakhulu ngokuthandana kwisixeko saseNew York? Ngaba kukho i-NYC ekhethekileyo yokuthandana nabantu abafanele bazi malunga nayo?
Matt: Ndimele ndithi amadoda aseNew York City akwenzile. Kukho amawaka angama-200 000 abangabhinqa abangatshatanga kunamadoda angatshatanga kwi-Big Apple, ngoko amadoda angabamkani apha! Kwaye ndiya kuba ngowokuqala ukuvuma ukuba amadoda amaninzi e-NYC anemibandela encinci yemfanelo xa ifika kubafazi.
Tamsen: Andiyi kuthi "ookumkani," uMateyu. Kodwa ndiza kubabiza ngokuthi "abachwepheli abangapheliyo." Ingqiqo yabo yinto yokuba ukuba umfazi ababenomhla kunye naye akabaniki nto into abayifunayo, abanenkinga yokuphelisa umhla ngokukhawuleza kwaye baqhubela phambili kumfazi ozayo, abo bakholelwa ukuba ujikeleze ekona ekulindeni ukuphuma nabo. Ngaphezu koko, amaninzi amaninzi amadoda akwazi ukukhawuleza ukuba azinikele kumfazi omnye.
Matt: Hayi, kutheni kufuneka babe? Baneendlela ezininzi zokukhetha kunye nabo bonke abafazi abangabodwa abangaphandle kwabo bafuna ukuphuma nabo. Uninzi lwabasetyhini eNew York luqala ukuphazamisa into abayifunayo ngokwenene umntu ukuba abe nobomi bokuthandana. Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuba ibhinqa lihlale kwisixeko saseNew York kukuba lihlale liyingqumbo kwaye qinisekisa ukuba nayiphi na indoda inomdla kuye iyaqonda ukuba inxulumana nabanye abantu.
Tamsen: Oku kufezekisa iinjongo ezimbini. Ngokukhawuleza unikezela umyalezo kumntu onomdla kuye amanye amadoda, okumqinisekisa yena nomdla wakhe kuye. Okwesibini, amadoda afuna ukukhuphisana ngokubhekiselele kwintetho yabesifazane. Ngokumxelela ukuba ungomnye wabantu abaninzi abafuna ukunyamekela kwakhe, kuya kwenza ukuba afune ukuba yinto engcono kakhulu kwaye uzame nzima.
Ziziphi iindawo ezifanelekileyo zokuhlangana nabantu abakhulu eNew York?
I-Tamsen : Ndiyincoma iimeko ezingahambelaniyo: i- Central Park imjaho yeenja, i-Whole Foods, kunye neeklabhu ezisebenzayo. Iziganeko zentando kunye namaqela okuvolontiya nawo aphezulu. I-Chelsea Piers kunye neHarry's Cafe eWall Street nazo ziindawo ezinomdla kakhulu.
Ziziphi iindawo ezifanelekileyo zokuhlangana nabasetyhini abaninzi eNew York?
Matt: Ndiyathanda isithili sefestile kunye ne- West Village , kunye namasebe okuzongamela kwi-B yeB: i-Bloomingdales, iBergdorf Goodman kunye neBarneys.
Njengabalingani bokudibanisa, ngaba unokwabelana ngokuthandana kunye neentlobo zobudlelwane obuninzi obonwa ngabantu?
UTamsen uthi amadoda enza ezi mpazamo zilandelayo:
- Abayilandelanga
- Babuza imibuzo malunga nesidlo sothando lomfazi
- Baye balahlekelwa amandla okuba baxakeke
- Abathethi kakuhle
- Bangakwazi ukuvalelwa ngokomoya
UMat uthi abesetyhini benza ezi mpazamo zilandelayo:
- Babiza abantu kuqala
- Balala namadoda ngokukhawuleza
- Bacela loo mntu ukuba achaze ubuhlobo
- Bafumaneka kakhulu
- Bavumela yonke into ibe yimiqathango yendoda
Ukulungele ukusekwa ngaloo mhla ngoku? Splurge kwiindawo zokutyela ezithandwayo , okanye ukuba uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali, zama enye yale mibono emihla engabizi kwi-NYC .