Ukutya kwaseMzantsi kunye neetrafti zetekisi zisetyenziselwa ukutya okusemthethweni, njengokuba udibana nabazali bakho bee-bhokisi okokuqala, iiholide, xa uhamba kunye naso rhoqo ngeSonto lokutya. Kukho imodeli ekhethekileyo esetyenziselwa ukukhawuleza. Imilinganiselo jikelele isasebenza.
Ngamanye amaxesha sisasebenzisa le mibeko kwizidlo ezisemthethweni eMzantsi, kodwa mhlawumbi akunjalo xa uzisa usuku lwakho kwi-Applebees okanye kwimihla yokutya yeSonto.
Ezinye iimeko, njengemitshato kunye nokutya okubhiyozelayo, ngamanye amaxesha kusesikweni.
Iifayile, iiNkcubeko kunye neNkqubo yokuHlola
- I-RSVP ithetha ukuba kufuneka uphendule isimemo. Kuhloniphekile kwi-RSVP ngaphandle kokuba ukhansele kamva okanye ungayihoywa ngokupheleleyo isimemo. Emva kokuba usu-RSVP, kufuneka ukhansele kuphela ukuba kukho imeko engxamisekileyo okanye ugula.
- Bonisa kwixesha, kodwa kungekudala kakhulu. Ukubonisa ukuya kwidlanga lesidlo okanye umcimbi ongaphezu kwemizuzu eyi-10 ukuya kwimizuzu emibini kuthathwa njengento engcolileyo.
- Iindwendwe kufuneka zinikezele ukunceda umncedisi, kodwa abamkelikazi abafanele bawuthathe iindwendwe zabo ngokuzicela uncedo. Izivakashi akufanele zifune ukubancedisa.
- Indoda enomdla isoloko isinceda umfazi ngakwesokunene sakhe, nokuba uyathandana okanye ayikho, njengoko ehleli okanye ephuma esihlalweni sakhe.
- Omnye akufanele athathe isihlalo kuze kube ngumama kunye nabanye abadala.
- Njalo ucele izinto etafileni, ungazifunanga. "Ndixolele, nceda uncede udlulise amazambane," esikhundleni sokuba "Dlulisa amazambane."
- Ungalokothi uthethe ngomlomo wakho ugcwele.
- Lindela kude kube ngumntu wonke onyakelwa ukutya.
- Ngokukhawuleza xa uhleli, faka i-napkin yakho kwipuphu yakho. Ukuba kufuneka uvuke emva kokuhlala, faka i-napkin yakho kwisihlalo sakho, kungekhona itafile. Ukubeka i-napkin kwitheyibhile ayikho.
- Musa ukubeka i-silverware engcolileyo kwilinen yelinen. Beka emaphethelweni weplate yakho ukuze ungcolile i-table linens.
- Musa ukuthetha ingxoxo. Vumela wonke umntu abe nekhefu. Ungasebenzisi ulwimi olubi. Zama ukubandakanya iindwendwe ongaziyo endaweni kunokuthetha kuphela nalabo ozenzayo.
- Awuyi kubuza nto into ebiza ngayo, nangona ungacela apho kuthengwe khona into.
- Yenza kuphela ukunconywa okunyanisekileyo. Kungcono ukuthula kunokuba wenze ukunconywa kwamanga.
- Ungaze ube ngowokugqibela ukushiya iphathi. Njalo xelela umsikazi onokubulela kwaye wandivuyela ngokuhlwa xa ushiya.
- Shayela umncedisi wakho ngosuku olulandelayo kwaye ubaxelele ukuba unandivuyela phi iqela. Eyona nto ingcono, ubhale ukubonga inqaku lakho.
Ukutshata
Ukuthandana kunye nentambo (ayinto into efanayo) ngenye yexesha apho abemi baseMzantsi Afrika basebenzisa imilinganiselo yabo. Ininzi yale migaqo yokuziphatha iyasebenza ekuthandaneni nabani na okanye nayiphi na isondo, kwaye ezinye zidlulileyo. Uninzi lwazo luqhutyelwa kwinqanaba elithile.
- Soloko sibhekisela kubasetyhini njengabafazi. Ziyabanjwa njengawo eMzantsi. Amadoda aseMzantsi angabamkani kwaye ayingqungquthela (jonga imilinganiselo jikelele yaseMzantsi ).
- Yiba nexesha lemihla kunye nokubandakanya.
- Kuyinto yendabuko yamadoda ukuyalela abafazi xa bevenkile yokutyela. Oku kuweleka, kodwa i-belle yeqiniso ingalindela ukuba umntu abeke umyalelo.
- Ungalokothi usithukise intsapho yakho yomhla, ingakumbi umama wabo. Amadoda aseMzantsi ngokukhethekileyo anamaqhina aqine kakhulu kunye noomama, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ungangenangqondo kangakanani ukuba ucinga ukuba unguye.
- Umntu onyanisekileyo akayi kuziqhayisa ngomsebenzi wakhe okanye impahla yakhe kumhla wakhe. Kunoko, uya kugxila kwimpumelelo yakhe.
- Yenza kuphela ukunconywa okunyanisekileyo. Kungcono ukuthula kunokuba wenze ukunconywa kwamanga.
- Indoda ihlawula ngokubanzi. Kwamanye amazwe eMzantsi, umntu ohambisa isimemo sihlawule. Ukuba ibhinqa libuza indoda, lingalindelwa ukuba lihlawule. Amanye amadoda aseMazantsi akayi kumkela ibhinqa ehlawula umhla, kwaye abanye abasetyhini baseMzantsi basenokukhubekiswa ngcebiso.
- Gcina umdlalo weentsuku ezizayo. I-Southerner yinyani ayixhasi usuku kunye neengxaki de ulwalamano luba lukhulu ngakumbi. Musa ukuvelisa ukukhutshwa kwendlu yakho okanye umboleko wesikweletu somfundi ngomhla wokuqala. Gcina iingxoxo zakho.
- Vala ifowuni yakho xa uphume ngosuku okanye kwindawo yentlalo. Ngaphandle kokuba imeko yongxamiseko, akufanele iguqulwe ingqalelo yakho kumhla wakho.
- Ungalibali ukuphatha abanye kakuhle. Umntu onyanisekileyo waseNtshonalanga uphatha wonke umntu kakuhle. Ukuba unomdla kumhla wakho, kodwa unxungule kwi-waitstaff, unzima umlenze wesango kwaye ufumene i-bartender, usuku lwakho luya kuqaphela kwaye luya kubonakalisa kuwe. Yiba noxolo kwaye uhloniphe wonke umntu.