I-Houseguest Etiquette 101

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Ukuhlala kunye nabahlobo okanye amalungu omndeni ingaba yindlela enhle yokuchitha ixesha kunye nabathandekayo bakho kwaye ulondoloze kwiindleko zokufaka. Ukuba ngumntu onokuhlala naye kunokunyaniseka. Nazi ezinye izinto kwaye akufuneki ukwenza uncedo lwakho lwendlu - kunye nemikhosi yakho-iya kufuna ukuphinda.

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Ungabonakali ungakhankanyiwanga ngaphandle kokuba unobungozi bokwenene. Nangona kunjalo, zama ukufowunela phambi kokuba ufike.

Ungafiki phambi okanye emva kwexesha lakho lokufika elihleliweyo ngaphandle kokuba uxelele imikhosi yakho kwangaphambili. Imikhosi yakho ingahlambulula okanye ithengisa ngomzuzu wokugqibela, yaye ngokuqinisekileyo baya kuxhalaba ukuba awuyi kuvuka ngexesha.

Musa ukuzisa isilwanyana - nokuba isilwanyana sangaphandle - ngaphandle kokubuza. Namaxesha onke.

Ungazicwangcisi ekwenzeni iifowuni ezide kumgama okanye usebenzisa iikhomputha yakho ngaphandle kokucela imvume. Yenza ifowuni okanye ifowuni yefowuni ukuze ungayi kuqhuba i-bill bill. Ukuba unikwe imvume yokusebenzisa ikhompyutheni yakho yemikhosi, xhathisa isilingo sokulungisa kwakhona iifayile zazo zekhompyutheni ngaphandle kokubuza, kungakhathaliseki ukuba zibuhlungu okanye ziphazamise ezo fayile zibonakala kuwe.

Ungalindeli ukuba imikhosi yakho ithathe ixesha lokusebenza ukuze ikubonise. Ukuba bazinikela ukwenza njalo, unokwamkela ngenyameko. Emva kokuba uvumelene kwishedyuli yokubona indawo, yenza okusemandleni akho ukunamathela kwisicwangciso sakho ukwenzela ukuba imikhosi yakho ikwazi ukuba ungayilindela. Khumbula ukuba imikhosi yakho iya kuxabisa ixesha elithile ukuba lidibanise kwaye liphumle.

Musa ukubeka izitya zeemikhosi zakho apho ucinga ukuba kufuneka zihambe ; ukubeka apho imikhosi yakho igcina igcina khona. Kuyafana nokutya, amaphephandaba kunye nokuhlamba.

Musa ukugcina imikhosi yakho-okanye abantwana babo-ngokukhawuleza ukuba uhlala phezu komsebenzi okanye ebusuku.

Musa ukulibala ukubonisa ukubonga kwakho , mhlawumbi kokubili ngexesha lokutyelela kunye nenqaku lokubulela.

Iindlela Zokuphumelela Zabazalwana

Yithetha ngezicwangciso zakho zokuhamba ngaphambi kokuba ufike. Imikhosi yakho iya kufuna ukwazi ukuba uceba ukubona izinto ngokwakho okanye ukuzithemba kuzo uncedo kunye nokuthutha. Ukuba awakubhekiseli ukujonga okanye ukuhamba kwimihla, cela malunga nokuba unokuchitha ixesha kunye kunye nokuphonononga iimpawu zomhlaba zendawo.

Ungakhankanya nayiphi na imeko yonyango okanye izithintelo zokutya onokukuchaphazela ukucwangciswa kwakho kokutya. Ukunikezela ukuzisa ukutya okukhethekileyo, njenge-gluten-free pasta, ukuze imikhosi yakho ayinakuyithenga.

Ucele ngaphambi kokusebenzisa isinyithi, umatshini wokuhlamba kunye nezinye izinto zokusebenza. Ngeke ufune ukuphula into ngenxa yokuba awukwazi ukuwusebenzisa kakuhle.

Yenza isicwangciso sosuku lokutyelela kwakho. Ukuba awuyi kuba ekhaya isidlo, xelela imikhosi yakho kwangaphambili kwaye unamathele kwisicwangciso sakho.

Ngaba ubuza malunga nemikhosi yakho yemihla ngemihla , ngokukodwa xa u tyelela ngeveki yomsebenzi. Qinisekisa ukuba ulungelelanise izicwangciso zakho ukwenzela ukuba imikhosi yakho ilungele umsebenzi okanye isikolo ngexesha. Ukuba unethemba lokwenza isiqalo sokuqala, khangela ukuba uqinisekise ukuba abantu ababini banokuhlamba ngexesha elifanayo ngaphambi kokuba uvule ipaucet.

Uzisa isipho okanye isipho sokuphatha imikhosi yakho ekudleni.

Mhlawumbi bathathe ixesha lokucoca ikhaya labo baze balungiselele ukutyelela kwakho, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo baye bachitha imali ekuthengiseni okunye. Qinisekisa ukubonga yakho kungekudala kuphela kodwa ngendlela ebonakalayo. Ukuba uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali lucacisiwe, cinga ukuzisa intsapho, imifanekiso okanye esinye isipho enentsingiselo yakhe.

Nika ukunika uncedo , kwaye uphulaphula ngokucophelela impendulo yakho yemikhosi. Ukuba bathi, "Hayi, bulela," bathetha oko.

Gcina igumbi lakho leendwendwe kunye nesitya sokuhlambela kakuhle kwaye ucoceke . Akunesihlonipho ukwenza umsebenzi owongezelelweyo kwimikhosi yakho.

Yimema imikhosi yakho ukuba uhlale ekhayeni lakho kwixesha elizayo. Yenza okusemandleni akho ukuba ufumaneke xa becela ukuhlala nawe.

Phumla kwaye ujabulele ixesha lokuzonwabisa kunye nemikhosi yakho. Uyakwazi ukubona apho, kodwa unokwandisa ubuhlobo bentsapho okanye ubuhlobo ngokuchitha ixesha kunye.

Umthetho Wamagosa Wabazalwana

Xa ungathandabuzeki, khumbula uMyalelo Wegolide: Yenzani kwabanye njengokuba ufuna ukuba benze kubo. Cinga ngendlela oza kufuna ngayo isivakalisi ukuba uziphathe ekhaya lakho, kwaye wenze ngokufanelekileyo.