Umfundi ucela iingcebiso xa ekhetha phakathi kweFort Lauderdale kunye neWeHo
Umbuzo: Hayi,
Ndingumfana omkhulu wale webhusayithi kwaye ndihlala ndifunda izikhokelo ezihamba phambili ezibonelela. Ndandinombuzo - Mna kunye nesoka lam liceba ukuhamba okokuqala ngqa. Ndineminyaka engama-25 kwaye uneminyaka engama-24, kwaye thina bobabini sisuka kwimvelaphi yentsapho enqulo oluqinileyo kwaye sinokuqonda kwaye sisebenza ngokuthe ngqo. Enyanisweni, uyatshata le hlotyana kwaye unokuqhubeka nokuphila kwakhe.
Thina bobabili silondoloze imali ukuya kwindawo ethile yokuthambisa apho singakwazi ukuvuleka ngokusemandleni.
Emva kokukhangela iiveki kwaye ndenza uphando lwam olutsha. Iindawo ezimbini endizigqibileyo ukugqiba kwiLos Angeles , apho singashenela khona iWest Hollywood kwaye mhlawumbi iMountain Springs , okanye iFort Lauderdale , eFlorida. Ekubeni thina bobabini silumkile, sifuna ukuba uhambo lwethu luvuleke kwaye lube nobungqingili-ukuba nje uphile kwaye wenze isondo emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa, utywala, kwaye ujabulele ukuba ngumntu wesilisa obala, njengoko kungekho mntu owaziyo khona. Ndandifuna ukufumana igalelo okanye mhlawumbi iingcebiso malunga nokuba yintoni indawo engcono ngokubhekiselele kwi-gay. Naluphi na uncedo oluya kuluxabisa. Ndiyishiya ekupheleni kwenyanga, kwaye uhambo luphela iintsuku ezi-5 kuphela.
Ndiyabulela kakhulu,
Guy oQoqayo, Canada
Impendulo: Hayi apha,
Ewe, iindaba ezilungileyo kukuba ufumene kakhulu iindawo ezibini kwisizwe, ukuba kungekhona ihlabathi, okulungileyo kukubolekisa kwiholide yentsholongwane yokuphumla, ukuvuyisa, nokuvuleka malunga nokuba ungubani.
Bobabini i-Fort Lauderdale kunye nePalm Springs baxhamle kunye ne-gay, iindawo zokuhlala ezikhethiweyo, kunye nazo zombini zifana nexesha elifanayo (ezithandwa kakhulu ziwela entwasahlobo, kwaye zitshisa kakhulu kwaye zincinci kakhulu ehlobo, ngakumbi iMountain Springs). Ukuba uya ekupheleni kukaMeyi, mhlawumbi uya kubusiswa ngezulu elihle kwiFlorida okanye eMzantsi California.
Kukho ukungqinelana okubalulekileyo phakathi kweendawo ezimbini, nangona kunjalo. Izixhobo zePalm ziyidolophu encinci (malunga ne-45,000), kwaye iimeko zentlango. Kukho ukuthenga okulungileyo kunye nokutya, kwaye ezininzi zokungcebeleka kwe- gay zihlala ndawonye kwiindawo ezifudumele zoMoya , ukudala i-vibe ye-party. Nangona kukho izinto zokuzibona nokuzenza kuloo ndawo, yindawo enokuthi ixhomeke kunye nekhenkethi yakho kunye nendawo yokuhlala egumbini kwaye ujabule (ngaphandle okanye ngaphandle kweendwendwe - ezi ndawo zihlala zifumana iindawo ezintle kunye neendawo zasendle, ikakhulukazi ebusuku ). Kukho ubomi bendoda engama-gay e-Palm Springs, kodwa kunoko-keed low-keyed, kwaye i-gay-bar-goers enomdla kakhulu ithambekele ekufumaneni into encinane.
IWest Hollywood ikulungele entliziyweni yeMetro Los Angeles kwaye inayo yonke idolophu enkulu ebonakalayo yidolophu enkulu yehlabathi, kuquka iindawo ezininzi ze-gay, iivenkile zokutya kunye neevenkile kwi-drag, e- Santa Monica Boulevard . Nangona kunjalo, esi sixeko asikho ndawo iindawo zokungcebeleka kwezesini. Eminye indawo yokuhlala eWest Hollywood , ngoxa i-gay-friendly, iindawo ezisemgangathweni. Ngoko ukuba uhlala kwenye yezi ndawo, awukwazi nje ukulala phantsi kwidama ngaphandle kwesaziso sakho (kakuhle, ngaphandle kokubangela ingqungquthela!).
Ukuba unentsuku nje ezintlanu, ukhetho oluhle lunokuchitha ixesha lobusuku bakho eWest Hollywood, ukuba udlale yonke into evuyisayo yaseLos Angeles, kwaye emva koko ubusuku obunye ePalm Springs, udibanise kwiindawo zokungcebeleka kunye nokuphumla.
I-Fort Lauderdale yidolophu enkulu kunamaPalm Springs (malunga ne-150,000, enabantu abaninzi beemitha eziphezulu) kwaye inendawo yokuhlala (kufuphi nxwemeni) kunye nenani lezintlu, izambatho-zokuzikhethela zokungcebeleka . Okulungileyo malunga nale ndawo kukuthi unamanyathelo ukusuka kwinqanaba elwandle elincinci. I-Fort Lauderdale nayo inomdla omncinci wesithili se-gay, iWilton Manors ehamba emfutshane kwi-inland kwaye ivakalelwa njenge-miniature yaseHollywood yaseHollywood - imivalo ye-gay, ivenkile kunye neendawo zokutyela ezininzi apha . Ngaloo ndlela, i-Fort Lauderdale inikezela ngamava e-back-back, ehlangene necala elingaphezulu.
Ngaphezulu, i-Miami - kunye nesimo sayo se -South Beach esinobuchwephesha kunye nokuthenga ngokutya kunye nokutya-kungaphantsi kweyure ehamba ngaseningizimu yeFort Lauderdale, ngoko unokukwazi ukulungisa ngokukhawuleza idolophu yakho enkulu ngemini okanye ngokuhlwa.
Ukuba uhamba nekhetho laseFlorida, mhlawumbi unokuchitha yonke imihla ezintlanu e-Fort Lauderdale kwaye uyisebenzise njengesiseko sokuhlola indawo.
Isishwankathelo, ngokuqinisekileyo awuyi kuhamba kakuhle nakwiSouth Florida okanye kwi-Southern California, ngokucwangcisa ukuzonwabisa, ukuxhatshaza, ukuhlaselwa kwe-gay. E-Fort Lauderdale kunye nePalm Springs / eWest Hollywood, unakho ukuba ube ngowakho, kwaye uya kufumana amaninzi kunye nabakhulekeli be-gay kunye nabakhulekeli belanga kwindawo zombini. Abanye abantu bathanda iFlorida ngenxa yesizathu esilula sokuba baninzi kwi-East Coast, i-tropical vibe, kunye nabanye bathanda iKalifornia kunye nesimo sezulu esomileyo kunye nempembelelo engaphezulu yeNtshona Coast.
Ukuba uthe wagxininiswa ngokucwangcisa, cinga ukuba i-Palm Springs kunye neWest Hollywood iholide iya kunika indawo eninzi kunye nebalaseleyo yendalo (indawo yolwandle kunye namabhantshi azungeze i-LA, kunye neentaba ezinqabileyo kunye neentaba zeentaba ezijikeleze i-Palm Springs) kunokuba uMzantsi EFlorida, ephilileyo kwaye yakha.
Ithemba elinceda, kwaye wena kunye nekwenkwenkwe yakho inethuba elihle!
Andrew