Yamkele uMoya oMoya kunye neZithethe zoMtshato
Nabani na oza kutshata eHawaii angaba nomthendeleko oqhelekileyo womtshato, ophethwe ngumthetho woxolo okanye umphathiswa wendawo.
Kodwa ezinye izibini zikhetha ukwamkela umtshato wazo ngokubandakanya umtshato wendabuko waseHawaii.
Izinto ziyakwazi ukuhluka, kwaye izibini zingakhetha ukubandakanya zonke okanye ezinye zazo, kodwa nantoni na oko kubandakanya:
Umculo waseHawaii
Abavakalisi bafika kwisikolo sendawo kwizandi zohlobo lwe-ukulele.
Asemthethweni
Umphathiswa wendawo, odla ngokuba ngu- kahuna pule okanye kahu (indoda engcwele yaseHawaii), uhlabelela ingoma (okanye u- mele ) njengoko ehamba nomyeni (ngubani, ukuba ufuna ukunamathela kwisithethe, kufuneka ukuba agqoke ezimhlophe nge-sash embala ebomvu, esinqeni sakhe) phambi komkhosi.
Oomama
Oomama bomtshakazi nomyeni bayahlonishwa kwaye bahanjiswe kwizihlalo zabo ngamalungu entsapho yabo.
Ukuxhaswa
Iqabane lomtshato (abatshatikazi, abafazi, intombazana yentombazana, umgcini wezambatho) uhamba nge-aisle ukuya kumthendeleko.
Ukufika kukaMtshakazi
Umtshakazi uvakaliswa ngokubetha kwegobolondo (okanye pu ) ukubiza umhlaba, ulwandle, umoya nomlilo njengamangqina. Ngaloo ndlela kuphela umtshakazi, ogqoke isambatho esimhlophe esifutshane kunye nesithsaba seentyantyambo eyaziwa ngokuba ngu- haku , qalisa ukuba ahambe phantsi kweso sikhati njengoko umyeni wakhe ephendukela kuye.
Ukutshintshwa kweLeis
Umtshakazi nomyeni bakatshintshana i-leis, isimboli sothando lwabo lwaphakade. Ngokwesiko, i- maile lei okanye i- maile- style ti iqhasi lei kumyeni kunye ne-ginger emhlophe okanye i- pikake lei kumtshakazi.
Emva koko abazali bababini banika i-leis kubo (mhlawumbi ngabazali bomyeni banikela umyeni kumtshakazi kunye nendawo enye yabazali abahambisa i-lei kumntwana wabo). Emva koko, umtshakazi nomyeni ngamnye banikela i-leis kwi-laws-to-be-law, kunye neqela labo lomtshato.
Umkhosi
Njengoko "ingoma yomtshato waseHawaii" ( Ke Kali Nei Au - "Ukulindela Wena") idlala kwigitarari ye-ukulele kunye ne-slack-key kunye nokuchazwa ngabadlali be-hula, i- hohu ikhokelela isibini kwisibhambathiso sesifungo .
I ntsikelelo yesonge
Ngaphambi kokuba isibini sitshintshe izindandatho, i- kahu idibanisa isitya senkuni elwandle (i- koa wood, isizwe saseHawaii, ibonisa amandla kunye nokuthembeka). Iqabunga le- ti , elimela ukuchuma kunye nempilo, linyongelwe emanzini kwaye lifafaze phezu kwamacandi kathathu njengoko i- kahu ibhala isandi somdabu.
Umjikelezo wothando
Njengoko isibini esitshatileyo sihlala sisangqa seentyatyambo eziqhumayo.
Ukuthulula iisanti
Umtshakazi nomyeni bathululela iinqanawa ezinemibala ehlukeneyo kwisitya esisodwa seglasi, ukuxuba kunye nokubonakalisa ukuba ababini baye baba kunye kwaye abanakuhlukana.
Umrhumo welila
Idwala le-lava, okufuziselayo umzuzu ozinikezele kuwo, uhlanganiswe kwiqabunga lomthi kwaye ushiye kwisiza somkhosi njengomnikelo wokukhumbula umanyano wakho.
Malunga noMbhali
UDonna Heiderstadt ngumlobi we-New York City-based writer and writer who has spent his life pursuing his two desires: ukubhala nokuhlola ihlabathi.