Iingcebiso zohambo lwabazali abangabodwa kunye neengcebiso

Ingaba ungumzali ongatshatanga kwikhefu kunye nezingane zakho okanye ukuba kwenzeke ukuba uthatha abantwana bakho ohambweni ngaphandle kweqabane lakho, abazali abahambahamba kunye nabantwana bajamelana nemiba ekhethekileyo. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso eziphezulu zokukunceda ukuphatha wena kunye nezingane ezincinci:

Flying ne Kids
Ukuhamba ngeenkwenkwezi kunye nezingane kwi-tow kunzima nokuba ngabazali ababini. Kodwa umzali ongeyedwa umzali uhlambulula abantwana, imithwalo kunye namaxwebhu ngokuqinisekileyo azalise izandla zakhe.

Yenza okusemandleni akho ukuphelisa isidingo sokuma emigqeni ende. Qiniseka ukuba ukhangele kwi-intanethi kwi-flight yakho iiyure ezingama-24 ngaphambi kokuhamba. Phrinta iipasipoti zakho zokupakisha okanye khuphela i-app yakho yeselula ye-airline ukuze ube nokufikelela okulula kwifowuni yakho.

Yazi imigaqo malunga nohlobo lokuchonga wena kunye nomntwana wakho kunokufuna ukuba ubaleke .

Xa uhamba kwindawo yokukhusela ikhuloza, qiniseka ukuba ukhetha iindlela zentsapho, eziqhelekileyo.

Ngaba uye wacinga ukuba ungayifumana njani kwinqwelo-moya ukuya kwihotele yakho emva kwelo lizwe? Ngaphambi kokuba uphume ekhaya, thatha ixesha lokuphanda ukuba ihotele yakho inikeza inkonzo yokuhamba ngeenyawo kunye nezinye iindlela.

Ukukhetha ii-Hotels-Friendly Hotels
Uninzi lwamahotele luchaza ukuba lunomntwana, kodwa ubungqina bukwimeko yepudding. Yenza uphando lwakho ngaphambili kwaye ujonge amahotele anikezela oku kulandelayo:

Xa uhamba kunye nezingane, khangela iehotele ezibeka amanani azo ngokusekelwe "kwigumbi ngalinye ngobusuku" kunokuba "ngumntu ngamnye ngobusuku."

Uninzi lwamahhotela lubeka amanani "ngegumbi ngalinye ebusuku" kwaye avumela abantu abadala ababini kunye nabantwana ababini kwigumbi eliqhelekileyo. Uninzi lweeRadio Resort Resort, umzekelo, uhlawulisa isantya esinye kwigumbi kubantu abane. Amanye amahhotela aseDisney aze awanikeze amagumbi ezintsapho ezinkulu ukuya kubantu abathandathu .

Kodwa iindawo zokuhlala ezininzi (ngokukodwa iindawo zokungcebeleka ezibandakanya zonke ) zibeka iirhafu zazo ezisekelwe kumntu omdala omdala. I-bane yokuhamba omnye komzali "yindleko yokuxhaswa komnye," leyo yindlela yokwenza ihotele ukuba ifikelele kwisilinganiso esifanayo kwigumbi, nokuba ngaba umntu omdala kuphela ohlala kwigumbi. Umzali ongabodwa uhlawuliswa umyinge "ngomntu ngamnye" wama-150, kwaye uhlawuliswe umrhumo we-50 ukuya kwi-100 ekhulwini. Ukusebenza kwesi siganeko esiqhelekileyo kudlala njani xa omnye umzali ehamba nomnye, amabini, okanye abathathu abantwana?

Kuya kuba kuhle ukuba umntu omdala wahlawuliswa kuphela "ngomntu ngamnye ngobusuku" kwaye umntwana uhlawula kuphela intlawulo yezingane eziqhelekileyo. Iindawo zokungcebeleka ezimbalwa zonke ezibandakanyekayo zinikeza olu hlobo lokuphuka kwexabiso ngexesha lokunyuswa okhethekileyo kwixesha elincinane lamanani omnyaka. Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba, umntu omdala uya kuhlawuliswa umrhumo omnye, kwaye umntwana wokuqala ufumana isaphulelo sabantwana abasaphulelo. Abantwana abongezelelweyo kufuneka bafumane isantya somntwana esaphulelo.

Ukuba, umzekelo, umama wayehamba nomntwana oneminyaka emihlanu ubudala kunye nomntwana oneminyaka engama-3 ubudala, mhlawumbi wayehlawulisa amaxabiso amabini amakhulu kwaye umntu oneminyaka emi-3 ubudala uya kubhatala isantya sezingane.

Izixhobo eziNcedo
Ezinye iindawo zokuhlaziya zinikeza ukukhushulwa rhoqo ngabazali abangabodwa abahamba ngezingane. Khangela kwakhona ezi nkampani, eziye zaqhubeka zifumana eli qela.

Ukuziva Unokukhuthazwa Njengomzali Ongabodwa
Ngaphandle kwexabiso, abanye abazali abangabodwa bayakukhathazeka ngezinye iintsapho eziphumayo. Ezinye iingcebiso:

Iimpapasho zokuhamba xa uphambuka iMida
Abazali abahambahambayo kunye nezingane zabo kufuneka baqonde ukuba banokufuna iimaphepha ezongezelelweyo xa bewela kwamanye amazwe. Qiniseka ukuba ufunde ngamaxwebhu afunekayo ekuhambeni kwamazwe ngamazwe .

- Ehleliwe nguSuzanne Rowan Kelleher