Isigaba sokutshata kwintsapho eqala umtshato ngokukhawuleza xa umtshato uphela. Ngokuqhelekileyo kutyhutyha ngethuba lokutshata, xa isibini sibini sinomnqweno wokugxininisa ngokupheleleyo kunye nokukhupha lonke ihlabathi.
Ukubambisana, uthando, nothando, kunye neentlobano zesini ngokuqhelekileyo, zizinto eziphawulekayo kwinqanaba lobusika. Kwakhona lixesha apho ezininzi izibini zisesigxina somzimba kwaye zikhangele phambili.
Akukho nto kwaye akukho mnandipha umdlalo omtsha ngaphezu komnye nomnye, kwaye banokukhetha ukunqumla kwinqanaba le- honeymoon apho bayazinandipha khona ngasese kwaye bengenaziphazamiso.
Ngethuba lexesha lokunyuka, abahlobo kunye nosapho banokuqala ukuziva benganakwa njengoko ubuhlobo obusondelene nabo bungazibandakanyi. Ukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo.
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Isigaba sokutshatyalaliswa kwexesha lokutshatyalaliswa kwexesha lesithandathu lixesha lokufumanisa, xa ufunda izinto ezintsha malunga neqabane lakho. Ngokuqhelekileyo, uziva unxila xa uhlala kwinkampani yomthandi wakho . Nangona kunjalo kunokuba nexesha elibi, xa likuncipha kakhulu: Lo ngumntu endifungile ukuyichitha ubomi bam bonke. Umlingane wakho uneziphene, uyazi. Njengawe! Ukwamkela konke okuyingxenye yokuguqula ubomi bakho obutsha kunye.
Esi sigaba sinjalo xa uqala ukwenza izigqibo ezinkulu onokungazixoxanga ngaphambi komtshato. Kwakhona lixesha xa uqala ukwenza imimiselo kwaye uvelise iinkqubo eziza kuchaza umtshato wakho iminyaka ezayo.
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Ngokuqhelekileyo, isiteji sobudlelwane besithandane sihlala ubuncinane ngonyaka. Ngokutsho kwinqaku e-New York Times:
Abaphandi baseMerika nabaseYurophu bafumana abantu aba-1 761 abatshatileyo baza bahlala besatshatile kwiminyaka eyi-15. Iziphumo zacaca: abantu abasandul 'ukutshata banandipha olukhulu lonwabe oluthe xaxa, luhlala iminyaka emibini kuphela. abuyele apho aqala khona, ubuncinane ngovuyo. "
Emva koko ezinye iinkxalabo ezinjengomsebenzi, imiba yentsapho, uxinzelelo lwezezimali kunye nempilo inokuqala ukunyanzelisa ilungu elinye le sibini ukuba lilungele ukugxila kwakhe kwiqabane elitsha kwenye indawo. Ngokuqhelekileyo esi sibini sinako ukubuyisela emuva kwaye sivuselele ukuxhatshazwa kwabo.
Kwezinye iibini, i-honeymoon isigaba sithatha iminyaka emithathu ukuya kwemihlanu kwaye ngamanye amaxesha. Kwiimeko ezininzi, i-honeymoon stage iya kumiswa ngokuthe ngcembe kwaye ithathelwa indawo yothando olusisiseko kunye nokuhlalisana.
Ukufika komntwana wokuqala, kunye neemfuno kunye neemfuno zobomi obutsha, uhlala ubonisa ukuphela kweli nqanaba kwintelano yesibini.
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Emva kokuba ufikelele kwinqanaba lobuhlobo bakho apho uziva unqwenela khona, kukho izinto onokuzenza ukuze ugcine u-spark uhamba:
- Yithi "Ndiyakuthanda" yonke imihla
- Thumela itekisi elimnandi ukuvumela iqabane lakho liyazi ukuba ucinga ngaye
- Phishekela umdlalo omtsha okanye umdlalo kunye
- Thatha uhlobo oluthile lwenkwenkwe
- Bhalisela izifundo zokudanisa - kwaye hamba!
- Ngaba nobusuku bemini nobusuku bemidlalo
- Thumela iintyatyambo ... ngenxa yokuba
- Sichitha ixesha; ukungabikho kwenza intliziyo ikhule!
- Vow ukuhlola indawo ehlukile yedolophu kanye ngenyanga
- Cwangcisa i-weekend yokundwendwela iveki okanye ixesha elide xa ungathatha ixesha.
Ngaba I-Honeymoon Ingunaphakade?
Nangona ezinye izibini zithi zihlala kwindlovukazi engapheliyo, akunangqondo ukulindela ukuba kwenzeke. Kodwa iindaba ezilungileyo kukuba ziyakwazi ukubuyela xa unako ukulinda ade abantwana bangaphandle kwindlu kwiminyaka engama-20 okanye njalo-kwaye ke unokufumana yonke uthando nokuhleka, ubulili nokukhanya kwelanga kubuya ebomini bakho.