Kubani na oceba ukuhamba kwelinye ilizwe, ukwazi ukuba indawo abaza kuchitha ixesha labo kubalulekile. Oku kuyinyaniso kubahambi be-gay eScandinavia . Amalungelo aseGay eFinland ngoko yinto efanelekileyo yokuphanda malunga nokuba unenjongo yokuya kwilizwe elihle.
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba amalungelo aseGinland agunyaziwe aguquke kakhulu kwixesha leminyaka.
Ubungqingili eFinland buye kwasemthethweni ukususela ngo-1971 nangona kunjalo ngowe-1981 xa kwagqitywa njengesifo. Umthetho waseFinland uphinde uphathise ubugebengu naluphi na ucalulo olusekelwe kwicala lomntu. Ngo-2005, ukucalulwa kobuni bobulili bobugebengu.
Kwakukho ngo-2002 xa ubambiswano obhalisiweyo buvunyelwe ngokomthetho kweli lizwe elihle. Siyabonga, Finland! Okusemthethweni ukulingana ngesini esinikwayo kwaye kunikezela izibini ezifanayo zesini kwiFinland ngamalungelo amaninzi. Nangona kunjalo, amalungelo abantu abathandana nabasetyhini abaye bawafumana ukususela ngo-2002 banciphisa amalungelo abo ekumamkelweni kunye kunye negama. Ukususela ngo-2002, ukukrokra kwamalungelo amaninzi abesinikwa ngesini ngesini kunye noluntu lwaseFinland luye lwavuka. Ngomnyaka we-2009, umzekelo, izibini zesini ezifanayo zingaqala ukuzonwabisa ngamalungelo okuthobela abantwana.
Ubambiswano obhalisiweyo eFinland bufana nemitshato yomtshato kwaye landela inkqubo efanayo yokubhaliswa kwanokuchithwa.
Iqela ekubambisene nalo linelungelo lokufudukela kwamanye amazwe. Nangonahluko phakathi kwePalamente kunye noluntu jikelele, ukuvota kweembono kunye nophando oluqhutyelwa eFinland lubonisa ukuba inkxaso yentsapho engatshatanga ngokwesini iyanda. Amalungelo e-Gay enza ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ubani atshintshe ubulili obusemthethweni phantsi komthetho waseFinnish.
Ngaphandle kwalokhu, ukuba ungumfana wesilisa kwaye uhlala eFinland, unako ukujoyina umkhosi ukuba unqwenela.
Mna kunye nabanye abaninzi bakholelwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ilizwe elihle laseFinland ngoku linye lezona ndlela zihamba phambili zokuhamba ngentsholongwane. Ukuba uceba iholide eYurophu, iFinland kufuneka ibone, ngakumbi ukuba ufuna ukuyixhamla kunye neqabane lakho - empeleni, kungakhathaliseki ukuba iqabane lakho lifana nesini na okanye unjalo. Leli lizwe lamachibi angama-200,000 yintambo yezo zibini zesini esifanayo ezifuna ukuzonwabisa ngaphandle kokucwaswa. Yenza indawo yokuhlaziya yokuhlaziya ngoku.
Izixeko zaseFinland zinemibutho ye-LGBT kubantu base-gay kwaye unokufumana uncedo kubo. Unokuya kwaye ujabulele umcimbi wokuzikhukhumeza wengingqi. IFinland inikeza umoya ovulekileyo kunye neendawo zokuvakatjhana nabasetyhini kunye nabahlali.
Xa uhamba eFinland, wena kunye nomlingane wakho unokwenza izinto enoba ziphi na izibini eziqhelekileyo. Ukubamba izandla nokumanga kulungile kwaye akufanele uloyike umntu othuka kuwe. Kukho iindidi ezahlukahlukeneyo, ama-saunas kunye namaqela ebusuku kwiidolophu zaseFinland apho unokufumana ixesha elifanelekileyo. Akufanele kubekho isizathu sokwesaba ukuphathwa kakubi kunoma yiphi indawo.
Unokuthabatha inqanawa eFinland kunye nabahlobo bamadoda abathandana nabo okanye iqabane lakho njengoko kukho amahotele aququzelele imisebenzi enjengolonwabo kwiindwendwe zabo.
Kukho nakwiindawo ezininzi ze-hangout zamabhinqa kunye namabhinqa aseLinland. Ezinye zezona zilungileyo zifumaneka eHelsinki kwaye zikhangela abathandana nabathandana nabasetyhini kunye nabo. I-Helsinki isondele kwiTallinn naseStockholm, ngoko ke, ukwenza indawo ehlala kuyo ukuze i-gay life eFinland.
Naluphi na ukhetha ukuchitha iholide lakho eFinland, qiniseka ukuba amava akho aya kuba yinto efanelekileyo.